i've been in few relations but it ended up because i didnt let them touch me ,im saving my self for my husband ,but it hurted me all they were thinking of is touching me ,but i dont feel sorry for that actually it would hurt me more if they had fun on me and then go away , if they were honest and serious with me they would ask me to marry them , im beautiful and educated but i feel lonely ,will i ever find the right guy for me!!
2007-02-25 20:31:21 · 22 answers · asked by Alexandra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yess, absolutely you`ll find the right one. It`s not wrong at all, you are good to have principle and any Men who wanna approching you must respect on that.
Girl, love doesn`t mean that you should give all you got to our partner, and great for you, you wanna save yourselves for your husband later...
Think positively, as long as Men who run to you stll wanna pursue sex before marriage or touch you and retreat when you refuse them...it mean they are not the right one, just wanna having fun firrst without commitment.
It`s ok, all you have to say Next......! until the one you`ve been looking for comes.
Honestly I`m proud with you girl......
2007-02-25 21:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure will, it just takes time and patience. All men think of sex, its just some of them have better control over it than most do. Trust me we all think of sex, maybe not all the time, but it does pop up every once awhile. Saving your virginity for marriage is a great thing, because it is truely a sign that you are able to pick the right person to love and be with. Dont worry about finding the right guy, because right now you need to find out what really matters more, finding the right guy to be with, or keeping your virginity. Quite frankly, that special someone will come along that can actually wait for you, and actually cares about you. All it takes is time.
2007-02-26 04:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by stewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends what the extent was of your touching ban. If you banned touching altogether (kissing, hugging, etc) then I can see why. It's not really normal to stop them from doing that kind of stuff.
But if you mean touching as in sexually, then they should respect your decision. Not a lot of guys like this to be honest but you will find the right guy who respect you and your decision..
2007-02-26 04:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Karl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(I'm a guy) YES! waiting is definitely the best thing to do, if you save yourself for your future husband, you'll be able to give him you whole self, not just a part of you. save yourself for marriage and eventually a guy will come along who will love you for who YOU are, not your body and he will be ecstatic that you have "waited" for him. For your own sake and the sake of your future husband, WAIT. Also NEVER beleive the old male phrase, "If you really love me, then you'll sleep with me!" That's a lie, if they say that, then you know that they are only after the physical aspect of the relationship.
2007-02-26 04:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by lostbinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong, just the way that you feel and believe. Of course you will find someone with the same views as you and you will then see that the wait was worthwhile as you will share similar views and have one less thing to compromise about.
He is out there somewhere probably asking similar questions.
2007-02-26 04:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are very deserving of a good man who will honor you and love you in a manner that you will find stable and secure and trusting. You continue to hold on to your principles. You will find someone much like yourself, who is saving himself for you. I don't know you, but have admiration for your stance and for your self-image, self-respect. Your loneliness will be rewarded by someone much like yourself so be patient. Maybe you should sign up for myspace.com. There are many men that would love to meet you, solely because of your principled stand.
2007-02-26 04:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not the wrong thing to do. You will find a man that will love you and wait, Don't let anyone change your mind you are on the right track.
2007-02-26 05:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jayson Kane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u r an east european...but i have an advice for you..! its very difficult to find such a guy just to marry u not even knowing u well and have fun during those times.. nobody will accept it bcos, guys have requirements. but don stop trying, u may get one like that.. all the best!!
2007-02-26 04:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing the right thing, you keep waiting that one man who will Love and respact you. Those other guys who just want to touch you but not respect you are a waste of time.
2007-02-26 04:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck! that was sarcastic to the extreme. Why don't you quit mastrubating and get some dick in your life??? There will be no right guy for you till you let em bust in your face! Thats how all loving relationships begin!
2007-02-26 04:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋