this guy said he like me...well, i like him too. the thing is, he was to go out to like the movies and just hang out...sounds cool right? yeah, thats what i though...then he says that we should like do stuff...like sexual things...for one, im a virgin, and im trying to stay that way until im married...i keep telling him that i dont wanna have sex or anything like that, but he just says..lets just try it once....give it a chance, give me a chance. im like no..thats NOT what i WANT!!! its like pressure. then i told him today that im waiting for marriage and then he was like bye..argh...frustrating...seriously...i dont think ill ever get a bf, cause of my belief...what should i do?
2007-02-25 20:19:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Don't* be forced into doing something you don't want to do. If he doesn't respect your wishes, then he is not a suitable bf. Simple as that. If you did give into him, and he leaves shortly after, you will be angry and disillusioned. Wait until you meet someone who meets your standards. They do exist, but sometimes can be hard to find.
Good luck.....
2007-02-25 20:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Michael T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stick with your beliefs, don't let a sex-crazed loser get you feeling down. If someone is pressuring you to do something that you don't want to do then they are looking out for their own needs and not yours. If someone really cares about you they will help you stick to your beliefs and be supportive. My friends and I have said that we had wished that we would of waited, that when we had sex we were too young and thought that we were ready but really weren't. Hold on to your virginity as long as you can and when you do have sex make sure it's with someone who really loves you. I often think that what I had was such a tresure and I just gave it away to someone who didn't appriciate it at all, dont make the same mistake.
2007-02-25 20:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Girls like u are hard 2 find this days 4 sure,. me and my gf hav no problem , cuz I'll wait till we get married!! thats the way she want it, and i respect that, its true sume guys 'r jerks but not all ^^ , the one will come 2 u, most of the time u dont have to seak 4 them =)
2007-02-25 20:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Hansel Jr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your beliefs, in the end, it makes you a much more desirable marriage partner. Guys like chicks who put out, they just don't marry them.
2007-02-26 01:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got a taste of what every guy is gonna do until you get married. If they can't change you, they will leave you. Stick to your morals............. it feels so good to hear this coming from a young sister.
2007-02-25 20:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you will get a boy friend, you just got to wait for the right guy that will wait for you. So chill most guys want one thing so you just got to judge them.
2007-02-25 20:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by clxgolf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell nah!!!!! Don't ever give up ur belief cuz of one @sshole!!!!! Girls like u r special & hard 2 find. He's da loser not u.
2007-02-25 20:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
females/women are frequently bi-curious, and arent afraid to tutor thoughts to at least one yet another. They hug, kiss, pass to the lavatory jointly, and stuff like that. yet at the same time as adult men do it, it really is incorrect, and gay.
2016-12-04 23:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋