If you tell a girl..."You are my Valentine"...Guys are you ready for a relationship?

Question

or are you just flirting?
We're not dating, but he has told me my conversation has sexually excited him.

I only know of him having one girl friend before now.

Answer 1

For me, I would not say it unless I was after a relationship. However, you can't say with any certainty exactly what he wants, as every person is different. If you happen to know his background, it helps a bit. For example, if he has had heaps of short term relationships in the past, it is reasonable to expect that this will be the same. Saying the conversation has sexually excited him, in my book, means that he is after something short term (read: a few days). Good luck..

If he has only had one girlfriend, then it is a good sign. however, I suspect you will still have to use your experience to work out if he is just after a one nighter, or something more. Hope it all works out...

Answer 2

I was once sexually excited by a pudding commercial. Doesnt mean i want a relationship with it! k, joking.

If your guy is < 21yrs old = he wants relationship
If he is 21-24 = 15% chance he does, 85% he wants sex
25 28 = 94% he wants sex 6% he wants a relationship
29 + = 99% he wants sex 1% he wants a relationship

I havent fiddled with asking for a valentine since 6th grade when I fumbled and threw a little envelope at Christie Armstrong and mumbled under my breath.. b my valntn r smntn.. and pood my pants while running away scared.

Answer 3

what, when does relationship come into play?
all he is asking for is a god dam date. and maybe to get laid.
why do u even think relationship when u hear that? its shocking.

Answer 4

valentine is open season on girls!
guys have nothing to lose, everything to gain.

Answer 5

he will be committing for a full day thats all :o)