I just can't seem to just do it with a guy for whatever reason. I've found that my feelings have to be really strong for the guy and I need to feel secure about his feelings for me as well. Even to kiss a guy on the mouth is not easy for me - my friends say my kisses are expensive - is this a negative?
2007-02-25 20:00:48 · 23 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey girl dont trip out thats the way it should be no its not negative you just want to know you mean something to that person not just letting them and you get a nut off hmm where you located at lol
2007-02-25 20:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you.-but it can happen the other way as well when well kissed and cared for a woman has to fight to keep her heart out of it. You Are D*A*M*E*D if you do and D*A*M*E*D if you don't. Sometimes a woman goes a long time and will give in to sweet temptation. Do i put up a new fence (which i need to do anyway) Lock the gate. Lock all the doors and windows. Go out looking even worse.(anyway i decided to wear my bathing suit when i mow my yard this summer and get a little tan) Avoid everyone. Never ever even say a friendly "hello" to any man. What the dickens does a woman do? I guess i will have to wait and see. Above all else protect your heart-honestly.
2007-02-25 20:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with your preferences, just that some guys may not have alot of patients for what they want and what you can offer to them. I honestly can wait that long im a very sensual person. But you hold true to what you believe in and if you question your ways then you need to analyze why you are feeling this way, maybe based on past experience and what you have learned. Remember not everyone has to agree with what you believe, but there will be some guys out there that would understand, if you have the patients then continue with your preference, if you are struggling with what you feel strongly about then you might have to compromise or adjust to what your heart can take and what it cannot accept.
2007-02-25 20:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jimsenite 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your kisses are expensive, what a cute thing to say. Anyways, nothing is wrong with that, girl. Apparently you like to careful about trusting a new guy. And it's fine. I mean, it's going to be complicated for the guy, but oh well. Hey, you just want to make sure that he's the one who is going to take care of your heart. Be you. Hey, you're just afraid like anyone else, ok? I understand you, girl. If you think a kiss is special to you, fine. Just be you. Hey, that's what your heart desires. Nothing is wrong with that. Good Luck!
2007-02-25 20:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think sex wise, it is okay. But kissing you can probably be a little more lenient. I mean, I usually always try to kiss ladies on the first date. And if they reject it, I feel as if they may not like me as much as I thought. But in my head, it is just a kiss. Sometimes it is hard for a person to see how another person really feels, and often we interpret it the wrong way.
2007-02-25 20:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope nothing is wrong with you. In fact your a great example of how to be. I'm proud of you! Don't worry the right time and the right person cannot be pushed or forced in to a situation. I'd just use this time for yourself. Keep developing your own interest's.
Your friends are wrong. You are priceless! Your worth is not measured by $$$. Good on ya!!
2007-02-25 20:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately not! It means you respect yourself and love yourself too much to give yourself away cheaply. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love. I am the same way. I have been divorced for 2yrs. I was married for 20. The only man i have slept with was my first love from high school. We net and rekindled the love that we shared. We were each others first and he is a man i will always love, even though we are now just friends. Keep your high standards. The man who wins your love and a sexual relationship with you will respect and love you and be a truly special person who deserves you, not just a cheap one nighter.
2007-02-25 20:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its nothing wrong,and always trust your instincts. because it's you who is in the relationship, it is you who can decide the best choice not anyone else.you can know yourself better than any other.
now if you are confused about the relationship, do some testings.simply asking the guy wont do.test his love for you.
i tried with the one i love but it turned me down coz she wasnt so serious about our relationship.however it gave me a head start on how to fix it.in the end, our relation became strong.
when u find out that the guy is in real love with you, then u'll anyhow feel relaxed with him.
so give it a try.
2007-02-25 20:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. You shouldn't sell yourself cheap. The fact that you hold out is respectful. Wish there were more like you. Now a days you don't know where people's mouths have been. Hope you find someone to share your feelings.
2007-02-25 20:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by ugcj10 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. You simply recognize your standards and stick to them. In this day and age being free and overly willing is more of a negative than being regal. Nothing wrong with having standards and knowing how your emotions tie in. In fact you will probably do better in relationships than your friends do. They may seem to have more fun, but yours will last.
2007-02-25 20:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Chali 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋