I believe I met my soulmate. However, due to his own personal problems/karma (it's even in his chart, 12th house is packed) I believe that it is just not our destiny to be together this lifetime. Being with him may actually kill me or (or has) just make my life a living hell. He is a drug user. We are not in contact, which is in itself complicated.
This is brief of course. I will check in if you have questions. Even if you don't know/believe in Astrology, I am interested in hearing your thoughts.
I am really struggling with this. It is weird because in my late teens, I had a 'knowing' that I would not be with my soulmate. I don't want to be with anyone else, and before him I never wanted to be with anyone.
2007-02-25 19:40:10 · 8 answers · asked by shell 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You should give you, him, your "relationship", your belief that he is your soulmate, and your 'knowing' that you would not be able to be with your soulmate... you should give all of these time for fruition.
Only time will tell whether these are true or not. And there is a high probability that they will unfold in a manner that you do not foresee.
You seem like an extremely unique individual - other people probably commonly describe you as "weird" or "different". You vibrate on a completely different wavelength from other people, so it's probably very natural that you don't "click" with most 'normal' guys.
However, this does not mean that love is nearly impossible for you - or that your soulmate is a karma-plagued, 12th house packed, drug user. (I actually believe in certain concepts in karma & astrology and have nothing against drug use, but I do not personally practice astrology or drugs.)
You should focus not on him or your relationship, but on your own path. The stars may show the signs, but how you decide to live your own life can change your destiny. Will you let yourself be dragged into the black hole of this "living hell", or will you rise above and be the star in the heavens you can potentially be?
2007-02-26 00:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that you're not being as confident and positive as you could be concerning the remainder of your life. Or even the immediate future for that matter. You will discover your true soulmate. He does exist. It sounds to me like this person you describe as being your soulmate is more of a ball and chain than a soulmate. In other words, someone who brings you down more times than up. When you turn the page on this chapter of your life, and approach life with a mind that is open to the greatest possibilities, you'll realize that your real soulmate is in this world somewhere, and you will connect with him. You may think at this time in your life that you don't want to be with anyone else. But as time passes, and your life changes, so will your needs and desires. And when you do meet your true soulmate, there will be no regrets, no mistaking it . And you'll realize that this person you're speaking of now, was simply someone testing your ability to love and give all of your heart.
2007-02-27 19:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reference to the person before me. You believe that there is not one person, but many (soul circles). This is what I believe. In the beginning since we chose to go to the material world, God punished/tested us. As a result we were split in half. That was deemed to drive us to "be good, do right, thus be attractive." And additionally to such end, we would meet our soulmate, the ultimate bliss (reward) and thus be closer to God, heaven, the spiritual world. However I do believe what she is saying. We all have our own karma (from being split/divided) and it often has nothing to do with the other person, or many others we would come across. Let go, and let God. Why the perpetuation of the belief that we have to be with someone to be complete? Think about that. Maybe she herself has issues and their karma is just not making it possible in this lifetime. Many people do end up with a life partner.
As far as arranged marriages. It is sad that people get together as a means of survival, it is kinda like prostitution if there is sex involved under those conditions, no?
2007-02-25 20:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karmas determine every aspect of our life and determine our destiny. Through astrology we can understand the karmic implications our past deeds and their impact on our life and future.
If you are not meant to be together, then he is not your soulmate. A soulmate is one who is destined for you in a particular life. The same person may not be your life partner in the next life.
Do not worry. If he is making your life a living hell, do not waste your precious life with him. If you are destined to meet someone in this life, you will.
2007-02-25 19:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rakesh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am really not understanding you have met him you are in love with him but you are nit picking on his faults and then next life time you and him will comeback as a what cats dogs trees what i mean listen to what you are saying here you let this stuff rule your life in a big way it controls you not you control it wow this stuff really is the weirdest junk i have ever heard of karma 12th house is pack knowing etc etc etc wow you and i am really reaching out to you on this here need to get a life this one you think to much and you sit around and dwell on this garbage to much really because if you let this stuff rule you and stop you from making hard and solid choices then you could not really have a married life with someone later with means if you don't stop this stuff you will be a scared lonely cat women and that means you will get rid of the cat that has the bad karma and crap then blah blah blah junk and if you keep on with this stuff and don't stop it that is exactly what will happen to you lady
2007-02-25 19:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by THE WAR WRENCH 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look, chickie, there are still people who have arranged marriages in this world. How do they survive? They decide to. Love is a decision. You betcha. When you decide to love, then you are ready. He's not ready...well, he's never gonna be. No matter what your faith, enter into this with your eyes open. The stars are cold and distant.
2007-02-25 19:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey..there is still a long way. you might meet someone else that you consider a soulmate.
2007-02-25 19:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
pssst
he isn't your soul mate,,,,,cause when you met your soul mate all things are in line
2007-02-25 19:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋