Should I continue having feelings with this ex that I have? I've known him for 8 years and we dated on and off for a long time. But then, he moved to Texas for graduate school and I'm all the way at California. I really miss him sometimes and I know that he's busy with graduate school. The main problem that I have with him is that don't really communicate with each as often. I emailed him once and he didn't reply for about 7 days. But, surprisingly, when I email him about serious problems that i deal with, he responds pretty quickly.. I don't know if I want to stay with him anymore... Although we're friends nonw and that he has agreed to be friends so that we won't end up hurting each other as a result, it's really hurting my concentration in my academics. I had two academic probations because I was so distracted by him not returning by emails. But then, he also had the similar situation during his undergrad years. Whhat should I do? Should I just move on?? Thanks for reading!!
2007-02-25 19:34:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can answer this. Obviously the situation doesn't point to an easy relationship and logically you should get on with your life. However if you are absolutely miserable without him then that should say something as well. Take a hard look at it all and you will figure out the answer
2007-02-25 19:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by 65Cobra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is where things get hard.
It is hard ending something that has ment a lot to you. Well what I think is that youShouldnt end if firstoff because you are so worried about it. It shows that you are wanting to try! But then you can still have a realationship with him even tho it is a longdistance and you don't talk as much as you used to.. I say take things slow.... If you and him are happy being real good friends with each other then maybe you both would be just happy that way at least till you both are done with school.... But don't end you life... Get out have fun both of you.... you are young.. Live it's ok you will be fine!! Just have fun keep in touch with him and have fun!!
Or stick it out with him and know that things will be ok as long as you both want it that way!! Well good luck and remember no matter what you do things will work out for you....
2007-02-26 05:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you gonna ask me...get over it girl! MOVE ON!!!.....focus first on you studies....enough with those guys. just always think that if you are really for each other, You Really are!!!.....and also another thing, focus on your academics just remember about your future, if will not be able to graduate or something.....you will regret having so busy worrying about HIM>>>>so move on!!!! already move on with mine!!! WORSE than YOURS
2007-02-25 19:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you need to move on so that you can focus on your life.
2007-02-25 19:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋