When i was 9 (boy), i was spanked in front of a 3yrs old girl by my mum with my pants and underwear down.?
yes, i think i really needed to get spanked as i was bad and my mother got angry at that moment. That little girl is my neighbor and she visited us before i get spanked. She seems that not care to see my half nake body. However, do you think a boy aged 9 can be spanked like that in front of a little girl?
Do you that girl still remember i was pulled down the pants to be spanked?
p.s.: I was asked to stay naked in front of that little girl for half hour.
2007-02-25 18:50:09 · 21 answers · asked by Tai Man C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I was spanked in front of a 3 years old girls too.
do u think she still remember now?
both of then did not threaten or feel afraid when i spanked in front of them, they just laughed on me at that moment.
I am 25 now.
2007-02-25 19:02:32 · update #1
u were abused sexually
2007-02-25 18:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will really depends on the situation...
At age of 3, she will not remember much (do you still remember what happened when you were 3?) Unless it was a big shock to her... Was the little girl was shock at that time? Or she was just acting normal...?
About the spanking... Does it work for you (Are you a better behave person now)? If you are better now, then that meant spanking is good for you!
2007-02-25 18:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by BB2791 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is disgusting and unnesecary.. Both the spanking and the nakedness.. If a child is to be punished i do not believe that it should be any sort of abuse and esspecially not in the presents of other people.. Punishment of a child is a private matter and the parents should at least give the child some respect and dignity.. I think at an age of nine i would have remembered a young boy being treated that way..
2007-02-25 18:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥..::Amy::..♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think your mother should have allowed the little girl to be present when she pulled your pants down. She probably was very angry and did that to humiliate you. That girl was probably curious about the male anatomy if she stayed there to watch. If this should happen again, ask the little girl to leave unless she wants to become the part of a serious problem. Then report the incident to another adult in your family or to a close friend. That scenario is not normal.
2007-02-25 19:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with getting spanked, the nine year old may remember but the three year old wont remember. it was harsh of your mom to have you half naked in front of her and then stay naked for another 30 minutes. that is not right. let them three year old girls laugh because i know you laughed when they got spanked.
2007-03-05 04:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tai Man C......you asked the same question 2 days ago. And all the questions you have answered so far have to do with spanking. Quite honestly, I think you need to move on. I get the impression you have something deep going on here. Get help. I am being sincere, not a smart @ss
2007-02-25 19:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jannie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think a child at age 9 should get spanked with their pants down,Yes, she will remember.The part about standing naked in front of someone,is abuse
2007-02-25 19:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by American_Dago 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont think she remembers anything . I read in a baby magazine that babies cant develope significant memories until they are at least 4 and a half so i dont think so y was u asked to stay naked in front of her?
2007-02-25 18:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by stacia a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may or may not remember, but it sounds pretty memorable to me. My guess is that she remembers, but it has only crossed her mind a couple of times since then.
The punishment sounds unfortunate. Hopefully your mum has come to understand since then that using that sort of humiliation as a punishment was inappropriate.
2007-02-25 18:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by itry007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I as whipped by my daddy with a belt until I was 19. By my mom with a switch. You were lucky. Yes, pants down, in front of my sisters.
2007-02-25 19:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Joe T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry but you should have NEVER been exposed in front of any body and that is BULLSHIT that you have to stand naked in front of them for a half hour !!! i am sorry for you experiences i just cant believe how people raise their children
2007-03-02 02:17:19 · answer #11 · answered by just wandering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋