Nowadays people think that they should seize the day! And try who ever possible before marriage because after marriage they will be limit. (if there is any limitation!). Are we allowed to leave like animals? For friendships we all have our own criteria and we avoid people who are not compatible with the values we believe but many people always mess around their opposite sex and with out minding any criteria try to satisfy their sexual need while they are not minding to their criteria about the kind of people they should have relation with. Is sex just a fun? Or the highest level of friendship and trust to some one we love and are loyal to?
2007-02-25 18:48:14 · 7 answers · asked by ta2aa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please do not answer me based on religious beliefs. I am looking forward to hearing some idea based on logical reasons.
2007-02-25 19:55:16 · update #1
Notice that my question is not about safety maters in sexual relationship, only ethics and just based on logical reasons.
2007-02-25 20:02:14 · update #2
You are the author of your own sexual destiny. You set the rules. Do what is comfortable.
2007-02-25 18:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex should never be used for fun. Only in a serious relationship, in marriage, should be used. What fun is there in making a girl pregant and having a baby out of lawfull wedding? There is no fun at al. Sex includes also a sense of responsibility. It is not good to be a single mother or to have sex like animals. Animals do it in order to preserve their speices, but for fun. Of course, they don't marry, althoughsome aniumals stay with their mates untill the offsprings come. They usually are monogamous. They don't go around with other females partners. They are sometimes cleverer than human beings. If you do it just for fun, your will suffer some unwanted consequences.
2007-02-26 03:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Oscar F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the answer in your question itself. Decide first if you are an animal or a cultured human being.
Bible says, GOD created man on his replica. I think, we have to honour HIM atleast by our moralities.
Whenever you are confused between Good and Bad, understand Devil plays its role and try not to yeild. Taking a glass of Wine with a woman is really fun. But you will get still more fun when you buy icecreams for a group of children. Think both costs you the same. Decide your self, which is going to give a guilty felling / contented feeling after you end the shows.
What ever action that does not gives you a guilty feeling later is the right action.
2007-02-26 02:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God created the first marriage between Adam and Eve. Sex was meant to be enjoyed within a marriage. God condemns any sexual act outside of marriage. I don't personally think that I should seize the day, I don't follow the crowd. I don't care if people call me an antiquated loser, I plan to marry a virgin.
2007-02-26 02:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is terribly overrated.
Sex is not intended for fun, its suppose to be the process for reproduction, that just happens to feel good. As God would have it, you should reproduce with a person you have an agreement with (married) to stick around for rest of your lives.
Man has screwed up the meaning of everything from Christmas to religion to sex, and left us to look for ways to justify the sins.
If you ever wonder what is right, Say to yourself what would grandma do?
2007-02-26 03:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the night, what kind of friends you are previous to the encounter and how drunk you are!
2007-02-26 02:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go do it just use a condom
2007-02-26 02:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋