When is it neccessary to tell your friend's fiance that you cheated with him on her? When it was only a one time thing and he still loves her?
And you barely know her.
2007-02-25 18:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is the one to decide what to do and when. He is the one who tells or not, not you. Stay away as much as you can. You want him to be happy. Do that for him.
2007-02-25 18:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all did you know he had a fiancee? If you did, that just as disgusting on our behalf as is. it doesn't matter if you barely know her or not. Wrong is wrong. Of course you should tell her. It cant get much worse for you as a person so the least you can do is tell her the type of 'loyal' man she is engaged to marry. Do her some respect at least.
2007-02-25 18:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is terrible of me to say but... if it was a mistake, the two of them are completely in love, you barely know her and he's ashamed of doing it and you know he won't do it again then... don't tell her anything. Mistakes happen (as long as you learn from them) but telling her that you sleeped with her man will possibly ruin their relationship for good. As long as you both regret it and he's realized how important she is to him, let it go. Don't ruin their life. Like I said, I feel like horrible for saying that but it's true.
2007-02-25 18:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your concience. If you tell her is it a way to get him back? What if you ruin their future? But on the other hand it he cheated with you he will do it again. there is never just once. You might save her a live of misery to tell her. Send her a letter.. don't do it in person.. and don't give your name...EVER.
2007-02-25 18:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your place to say a word to her at this point. this is his job. the only way i could see you telling her is if you and her begin to become friends in which it would be your place to say something. other wise saying something to her at this point would just make you look like a total ***** (although i think you may have already done that)trying to break up something good.
2007-02-25 19:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do you want to ruin their relationship now, just back off, if was a 1 time ting
2007-02-25 18:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves her he will tell her. Because if he is meant to be with her he will. He has to be able to prove to her that she is the one and only.
2007-02-25 18:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no time like the present.
2007-02-25 20:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell her. It's not your place. He should tell her.
Don't say anything. You'll mess it up for sure.
2007-02-25 18:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it becomes a lie you have to deal with.
2007-02-25 18:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by bonedaddyxl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋