This question is between me and my Boy Friend for last 3 months and we debate in a length. We want to see for the general openion of yours.
2007-02-25 18:35:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not a question of time, but a question of sincere love. A clever man is the one who respect his fiancee all the time and does not abuse her sexually until they get married. Love is not sinonimous of sex. They are different. Sex cannot go witholut love, but love can go without sex. Certainly, if a girl does not not well her boyfriend she cannot marry him. Courtship should last at least for 3-4 years. But it does not mean that she should ask for sex all the time. Marriage is the consequence of love, but not the consequence of sex.
2007-02-25 18:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say that the man who loves the girl for a long time is more clever. Marriage is not something that should be jumped into or rushed. I think there should be some sort of time frame that a woman is with a man before marriage happens though. There are definitely a lot of issues that come into play with this question, but that's my opinion on it. :-)
2007-02-26 02:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish someone could answer this question too. I am wondering the samething. My man and I have been together for almost three years and he always talks about getting married, but never comes through. But then my best friend married a girl he had only known a few months and they are miserable.
2007-02-26 02:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more clever one is the one who married the girl quickly. But the wisest one is the one who is still waiting, because he gets to know her even better.
The guy that wants to marry quickly, just wants to get busy asap. The guy that waits wants more than just sex, he wants to know if this is the girl he's been waiting for so long.
2007-02-26 02:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in your 20's or older and you have known each other for 1 year, then start planning on marrying.
If you are younger, please wait.
You would get more well thought out answers with details such as your ages and how long is a long time.
That said, though many speak from experience, others don't know or care and just answer for the 2 points.
Carefully choose your mentors, if you are basing actions on their advice.
2007-02-26 02:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. Sometimes when you wait too long you lose. Sometimes when you rush in too quickly, you act before you had enough time to fully understand each other. I think a year is enough time to get to know each other. If you're not sure after a year, thank each other for the time and energy spent, and move on.
2007-02-26 02:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both wrong, the one who marries a girl quickly and is in love.
Everyone is different but both of the cases you bring up are wrong.
If you are in love for a long time why not get married?
If you are not in love do not get married.
2007-02-26 02:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by huskerslord 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
marries a girl quickly without strong love create difficulties in the long run
loves a girl for long time and not get married is stupid...
anyway, u and ur bf oni start dating 3 months rite... so cool it down.. dun get married yet...
2007-02-26 02:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that it does not matter who is clever or not.
All relationship comes with the heart and what is the point if you have no love for that particular person if you marry quick or not.
Think about it.
2007-02-26 02:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "one who loves a girl but still not married" to many people get devorsed these days. theres no need to rush into anything..
I have been with my man for 2 years and don't wanna get married and I knowbody that has been for 7year!! has is in no rush to get married
2007-02-26 02:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋