some 1 said iam easy iam 18 i have bein with 13 guys in the past 3 years i used protection with most but idk am i a s1ut???
2007-02-25 18:07:34 · 34 answers · asked by ashley_shaw3355 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, you're probably trying to have others validate that you are... that's averaging less than 4 months per relationship (if there was a relationship to begin with...) most highschoolers end up "dating" for under a month and most who say they're having sex really aren't.
2007-02-25 18:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, 13 guys in 3 years for an 18 year-old? Yeah, you're a s 1 u t even if you did use protection. That's kind of excessive-bording on more than just a s ! u t.
With that kind of sexual activity, it's hard to imagine what you think you could possibly offer a future husband and father of your children. You obviously have what "I" consider to be misguided notions of sex and sexual relationships.
The good news is that at 18 , it's not to late to find your way towards a more promising future for a successful relationship.
2007-02-25 18:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest, having 13 guys in 3 years I don't thk it as any problem. But having sex to all 13 of them... hmmmmm you must be I hell of a hot babe.
You meet, you like, you have sex...later dislike you breakup so no problem here and you also stated you had protection. Go green light from me. During this period, your hormones are hyperly active... hahahahaha try to control them , okay.
2007-02-25 23:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Med 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you are a slut, you just won't let anything like morals or consequences get in your way.
Did you have feelings for these guys, or were they just for fun?
Did you know that guys will only respect a woman that they feel is NOT easy and HASN'T been had by every guy in town?
Do you feel that you have anything to offer other than easy sex?
If not, I hope that you learn to.
2007-02-25 18:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, take this chance to change your life. You are worth so much more than this. Since you are 18, go away to college and start a new life, a new non skank life. Keep your past in the past. Try to imagine having a baby girl and imagine her blowing the football team i high school, not too pleasant hmm?
2007-02-25 18:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18 that makes you a consenting adult (Now). To me it does not sound like you are easy it sounds to me that you must be getting what you want. If you are using protection, and you are enjoying yourself,self gratification is not wrong and if you (are) enjoying yourself don't let what others say bother you. More than likely they are envious or jealous.
2007-02-25 18:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are, but don't stop now. Strive for more. Make it a perfect 18 at 18. Then, when you've accomplished that feat, you can work on your spelling and grammar.
2007-02-25 18:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mika Gionta 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way-- most people try to keep the number of people they sleep with on one hand (5) You're almost 3 times that... Draw your own conclusion
Using protection doesnt make one less of a slut, just shows that you're a little smart, but its smarter not to sleep around like that for you emotional well being.
2007-02-25 18:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, please please PLEASE dont listen to any of hte answers above. There are many women out there that have sex for the same reason thats guys do. Love, lust, like sex, wahtever the case may be. to answer your question, you are NOT a slut. Beleive me, if you add it up, 13 guys arent really that much. oaa the people above me (which are predominantly male might i add) will say that becasue one : they wish they were attractive enought to have that half that number, two: ARE MALES and three: are stuck in the 1960's mentality that women dont have needs too. Now after having said that, you are not a slut, but you need to be careful what you do and who you do it with, tis all.
2007-02-25 18:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Candy 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋