Yeah, I told him. Problem is, he denies it completely, and refuses to go get tested. He says he doesn't have that ****, he feels fine. I told him he wouldn't feel it at all, and he HAS to go get tested.
He wont'.
What do I do now?
2007-02-25 17:28:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, he got it over a period of time when we weren't together. He's even threatened me when I pushed the matter of him getting tested.
He said "If you ever talk to me again, i'll **** up your life." Isn't that some junk?
You know what, I agree with you guys, to hell with him, let him rot.
2007-02-25 17:37:36 · update #1
What can you do? You can't make him go get tested. Treat yourself. You did your part in informing him.
2007-02-25 17:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get some information from a health center or internet about some of the STD and let him read them and maybe that will help him change his mind.
2007-02-25 17:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you to kick him to the curb like so many do.You no now your husband has been cheating on you,for all the women out there that tell you to get read of him it's a good chance that 90% of their husbands or b/f have or are cheating on them right now.So don't let anyone talk you into anything you don't want to do.
2007-02-25 17:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to your local Health Department. They will take the legal and necessary steps from there. After that, let him be. If it falls off, then he'll change his mind about getting checked and using protection.
2007-02-25 17:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some STDs are asymptomatic in males, so he may genuinely believe he is not infected. If he doesn't want to get tested there is nothing you can do about it.
2007-02-25 17:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself, and stop having sex with him. You did your part to tell him. You did hurt his ego, pride, and manhood, but that should not be your problem. If he wants to act stupid let him, he is the one that is going to pay the price. He not worth keeping, if he does not value you.
2007-02-25 17:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your doctor. If you have caught some kind of infection from him, I think he can be made by law to be tested and treated, so as to prevent some kind of epidemic.
2007-02-25 17:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess: You know how to avoid getting an STD--you just ??? If this doesn't kill you, will you start practicing safe sex?
2007-02-25 17:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing, blazegirl is the only one that seems to have read the friggin question and applied any thought, good job blaze.
health dept.
2007-02-25 17:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave him alone if he's your ex then it really doesn't matter. If you two are still sleeping together I suggest not until he gets checked.
2007-02-25 17:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋