My cousin has been talking and flirting with this guy thats her age 18yrs. And he was really doing everything he can to get her number. Then after a while after hanging out alot, she went spent a night to his place and had sex. She slept over and the next morning they both got up and went to class. That evening he text her and was asking what she's up and so on...Then the next day she saw him in the caf. but was too shy to say anything. Then on the third day she text him and he text back. But I think he used her, but she don't know. Did he use her? or is he shy and don't know how to talk to her about what happen?
2007-02-25 17:27:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is feeling like HE has been used? if she saw him in the cafeteria the next day and didn't go to talk to him, he might think that she was ignoring him!
he's texting her back, so i would guess that they are both just feeling a bit shy and embarrassed about the whole thing. why doesn't she call him instead of just texting, see how he responds to that? it would be a shame for something to fizzle out because they are both just too shy to make the next move...
2007-02-25 21:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple imagination will never work in these cases . Talk yes she has to talk with the boy and clarify all the doubts and thats the only way to come out of this type of problem.
2007-02-25 18:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was she used?
She appears to have willingly went to his place and slept with him. There's no crime for that.
Not only is he's afraid to speak to her upfront, so is she. She isn't exactly innocent here. Instead of speaking to him in the cafeteria, she kept quiet.
If she really wants to say something, she shouldn't wait on him to speak up. She needs to make the move and go talk to him.
2007-02-25 18:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he used her he wouldn't text her back. He is probably too shy/embarrassed to talk. Why doesn't your cousin make the first move in talking to him.
2007-02-25 17:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by WelshLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that he did use her.. if he texted her the next day asking how she was doing!..and if he always texts her back..if he didn't say anything to her in the cafe he was probably just very shy..they rushed in to it too quickly though,it was both their fault
2007-02-25 17:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
shes 18 & still too shy to talk to a guy for real
is she really that stupid??????
talk to him then give him a REALLY HARD SLAP
tell everyone he was really bad in bed & go get talk to a boy face to face shag him & say that he was soo much better
2007-02-25 17:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you never know, he might have, but you don't really know this guy, do you? He might be embarrassed or something.
2007-02-25 17:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by jess. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy was she used.
2007-02-25 17:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by samantha.swan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
welll duhhh.
of course she was used.
2007-02-25 17:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋