gals, wat gestures do u concider 'nice' but not getting overboard?

Question

u knw simple things like open the door 4 u n stuff.
how would you like a guy to treat you?

Answer 1

If I'm carrying an armful of stuff, it's nice for you to offer to help--but it's obnoxious if I decline and you insist, because chances are it's just easier for me to do it myself.

I love it when a guy will open a door for me, but if he makes a point of doing it every single time to the point where he slides in front of me to do it when I'm already reaching for it, it gets annoying.

I appreciate compliments, but only in an appropriate context: if we have a formal relationship or I've dropped hints about my boyfriend, chances are I don't want you telling me that my outfit flatters my eyes. But if we have a flirty friendship, then you can tell me that all you want.

Go ahead and invite me to the movies, but don't insist on paying unless you're my boyfriend.

To be safe, don't give me roses unless we're going out--but if you really want to, then make sure they aren't red or pink. Appropriate flowers for friendship are generally yellow ones, dasies, carnations, and so on--cheerful, rather than beautiful. Otherwise flowers can just make things awkward.

if we ARE going out, then give me flowers (even if she's the type of girl who pretends not to care, she will still love them)

Oh, compliments like "you look nice today," can be taken wrong. Instead, try, "you look even better than usual today."

Any specific gestures you wonder about?

Answer 2

overboard is anything that draws a lot of attention. Weather it's something overly sexual like gabbing her butt or saying really dirty things, or overly extravgant like if you interupt an event to and make everyone watch as you ask her out. I would want a guy to treat me like somthing special but not announce to the world that he's treating me special. Do you get what I mean?

Answer 3

i do unlike a guy to do something for me that i can do myself. some gals like the hollow doors and fawning over them. i can not stand it. It extremely relies upon on the gal. Oh and don't ask to bathe off my vehicle interior the snow. you will get a snowball thrown at you. human beings doing issues for me that i can do myself make me experience incompetent, or incapable.

Answer 4

like a lady when i allow it and/or expect it... otherwise I'm ok