Did anyone ever break up with their girl for a break to sort of their feelings and then come back? I'm pregnant and I think my ex is really scared of the responsibilty..He told me that we just can't work out. He has to clear his head..yet he calls all the time..I know we had our problems in our relationship..Has anyone went through this? Any men ever did this? We had a relationship of 7 years..Since we were 17..I don't know if the baby scared him or what. His dad put him up to moving in with him in another state to take a job. I am concentrated on my baby but I can't help but be emotional over this. 7 years is hard to just forget.
2007-02-25 17:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
its not uncommon for men to get cold feet. its a big responsibility and some don't think they can handle it, or dont want to. just wait till he meets his child...i bet he will come around.
2007-02-25 17:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks.... but you're doing the right thing by focusing on your baby. I would wait and see what happens after the baby comes. Maybe he won't be a very good Father, and you'll be thankful for the way things are now. Or, maybe he'll see you as a Mother, and realize what he has given up.
No matter how things turn out... you will have a beautiful baby that symbolizes the 7 years you were together.
2007-02-26 01:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did the easy part the sperm donor, now will he have the balls enough to be a dad ,he's young and has his whole life a head of him and that's probably his first thought, yours is what will i do without him, well reality check ,you will probably be raising his child ,well honey i hope he steps upto the plate for his child but remember if he walked away once who's to say he won't do it again down the line think of your child that is first priority
2007-02-26 01:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by san76dy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your feeling and situation you are facing right now, i would like to tell you to give him some space now, but due keep him inform of everything, the way you feel and if possible try to call him for the sonography etc.. discuss it first with your doctor, to make him understand how much you need him..
2007-02-26 02:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Richa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go , do tell him he is free from babies resposibilities, but do keep him updated with the babies development do make him see the ultra sound vidieos of your devloping baby, may be the baby can bring him back.......... or even after the birth of baby tell him how much he/she resembels him and how cute is he just like him etc etc.......... may be he can come back to you
2007-02-26 01:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by AMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋