well her past relationship was the same she did not have much contact with us at the time until things with her relationship went bad. In the sense where her boyfriend started cheating on her then he just said to her one day he did not want her in the house no more and decided to throw her out and there i was like always helping her out . Then ended moving whith me and my family then met a friend of my boyfriend and wriht after she decied to have the guy move in maybe after 2 to 3 months after moving in the guy decieds he no longer wants her and himself to live there and move out and from there on we dont talk agin not even on the phone because he would usally be there.
2007-02-25 16:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by floresmagie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This may be abuse:
Check out this website. Read both top and bottom. If it still seems like abuse talk to a local women's shelter, call a crisis line, tell Any public servant because they have to mandatory report (check laws in your state), just talk to someone in authority.
http://www.lilaclane.com/relationships/emotional-abuse/
2007-02-25 17:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can talk to her family if she really wanted to. She just desires her boyfriend more at the moment and chooses not to so don't completely blame the boyfriend. She sounds like a very lost human being, needy and insecure. She needs more time to grow. Be nice to her verbally, but don't feel obliged to be her mother. She's a grown woman. Sometimes, we learn our greatest lessons when we get hurt. If someone is there to clean up our mess for us, we learn nothing. Still, show verbal empathy towards her, but you have yourself to take care of. It doesn't sound like she values your help anyway so stop sticking your neck out.
2007-02-25 17:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by here_nor_there 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi,
your sister is in a pattern a romance patter en. the only problem is she allows her boyfriends to rule her world. and because men are controlling by nature he did just that took or her life, this is not healthy for her or for him. try to get her to have a sisters night out once a week, but be careful he just might be to controlling,
2007-02-25 17:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is controlling and is probably abusing her. Abusers separate their victim from their friends and family and break down their self esteem. Talk to your sister and see if you can get her to open her eyes. She should listen to Kelly Clarkson's song "Because of You." That is how she will end up.
2007-02-25 17:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he controlling her. and that a very dangerous game to
play i would serious talk to someone about this before it become
a bigger problem then just not talking to the family. but that the
first sign of controlling behavior.
2007-02-25 17:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like power, control, manipulation, emotional abuse, isolation, and possible physical abuse. Yeah it sounds like some domestic violence red flags.
2007-02-25 17:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by another journey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to grow up and dump him. He is far too controlling
2007-02-25 17:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋