Caught on an internet site?

Question

My boyfriend was on my computer and after he used it he deleted the history. Later on I found out that through looking in my internet history that he was on a online booty call site! he claims he wasn't on it, that it was spam that I saw on the site. However when I click on the icon's I can see that a message was sent I just don't see the data. And just today while looking I saw that he had a 1 month history on the site. What should I believe?

Answer 1

um ,knowone should have to tell you what to believe...its obvious~!he has a month history there.....anyone is going to lie when they get caught on a site like that~! now you need to find out what he is doing on that site~!? good luck~!

Answer 2

I would guess that where there's smoke there's fire. So you need to ask yourself if it is a problem for him to be on a site like that or if it is harmless experimentation. If he is just enjoying the thrill of something novel then I would guess no problem. If he is meeting someone that he has developed a relationship with behind your back then that is a serious matter.

Answer 3

Yeah he is looking for a booty call through Internet services. Go with your instincts.

Answer 4

Computers can't lie hun. he was on a booty call site. But he probably has porn all over his house, get over it. That's just how some guys are.

Answer 5

Let me play the violin. If he met these women in real life, yes, that's cheating. If he is just getting his rocks off online, then drop it, ok?

Are you going to police his internet activities? If you are that worried then you have insecurities of your own to deal with.

Women: Mind your own business and don't SPY on your boyfriends!! What is the big DEAL!

Wow, so you tease a guy you are dating, string him along awhile, before you FINALLY have sex with him, then once you do,

1. you get full say when you want to have sex
2. you get full say how you want to have sex
3. and now you have full control of his sexual fantasies of women other than your sweet, bitchy self.

What is this 1984? Are you Big Brother?

Newsflash, your p ussy isn't made of gold!

Answer 6

its one of those things that you can either let go, and it will eventually come out or you can fight it. If you think it's worth fighting over then bring it up, but if it's not worth the fight then let it be. I agree that lying is no way to have a good relationship, but maybe it's some guilty pleasure thing that he's having a hard time stopping. so it's up to you to either call him out and prove what you know or to just let it go. how important is it to you and to your relationship as a whole?

Answer 7

believe what you see, it happens to most females...guys and there stupid boy penisis!!!!
if it's a cht thing where he's talking to other females i would leave him, but if it's a porn site, i would talk to him about, see what you can do to help him avoid it, did it with my now husband it worked, i offered another solution its called bettersex.com and its an educational dvd for partners,we both learned alot from it, as we can know that sex does get a little boring and new things togther doesn't hurt=]

Answer 8

what a lying jerk!!!


my ex was on MY computer (it's in MY room) and I was sleeping... later I got online and checked e-mail and he was on a bunch of sex sites... I blamed my sister because he told me it wasn't him then he told me that it was and I was sooo pissed.



♥ Christina

Answer 9

Your computer didn't just generate that by itself, he sounds like scum, sorry it'd be one thing if you found it and he had told the truth but he still lied even when you had proof???

Answer 10

I would come out and ask. Put a hidden logger on it or something, cause that would be kind of serious.