because i dont think men do they always go after the younger ones why?
2007-02-25 16:48:11 · 20 answers · asked by cooljoe7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
31!?? Are you high? Women in their 50s are getting laid. You are not even 40 yet, of course there are guys for you, lol.
2007-02-25 16:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Okay, honest answer: IMO, there are plenty of pretty, attractive women well beyond the age of 31 (I'm 41 and regularly get flirted with/hit on by younger women). After your 20's, not only are there many, many attractive women out there, but personality and glow, zest, spirit, (or whatever you want to call it) count for a lot more than it does in 20 somethings, because your personality/character is pretty much fully developed and/or set in stone by then.
In other words, when a man who is in his 30's or better (generally speaking) is attracted to you, he can tell right up front, with a high degree of accuracy, what type of person he is really getting should he choose to persue a relationship.
Also, and once again, I'm only being honest...men are visual. I'll likely get some thumbs down for this one...BUT-physical fitness and physique counts also because it says a lot about how well a woman takes care of herself and how satisfying she is likey to be sexually. So, being pretty counts, but being physcially fit, counts as well when it comes to physical attraction.
Basically, 31 is far from what most of us consider to be old! It's only old, really, if you are a teenager or early 20's.
2007-02-26 01:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. 30 is the new 20 some men do like women who are younger but think about it if he likes you because of your age that is not the man you are looking for so don't start losing your hair just because you think the men aren't feeling you my last boyfriend dumped me for a woman who was 35 so no problems I'm sure that if you open your eyes you will find plenty men who are attracted to you for all of the right reasons
2007-02-26 01:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do find woman pretty at 31. How is your self esteem and how are you presenting your self. Are you sure of yourself or are you appearing desperate. If a guy is going for a younger one its because, he is looking for piece of a**, or are you looking to get in that game?
2007-02-26 00:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, 31 is still young. Besides you want to hook up with a guy who is still chasing 18 year olds? Maybe you gotta start looking for a better class a guy
2007-02-26 00:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There are plenty of hot 31 year old women.
2007-02-26 00:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I still find em pretty at 57+ I wouldnt even think of dating a kid of 31 (I'm 48 next month) they dont know crap about crap IMO.. I havent dated any one under my own age in eons...
2007-02-26 01:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
31 is just the right age, they are just starting to show there inner beauty. they are starting to become the real woman they were meant to be and leaving the childish 20s behind them.
Good luck
2007-02-26 01:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by xxgq 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A woman can be pretty at any age...if she is pretty in the first place. It has nothing to do with age...which is only a number.
How old is Kylie Minogue? I just looked it, she's 38 and hott as fire. I rest my case.
2007-02-26 00:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
31 is the right time for lovers
2007-02-26 00:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by killer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋