Ok so there's a senior that likes me and I like him a lot and he has a g/f. He said if he breaks up with her and when he's in college he might ask me out. I'll be a sophomore in High school and him a freshman in college. Should I go out with him if he asks me? like even though he'll be in Central 3 hours away... should i?
2007-02-25 16:45:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so let me get this straight. Correct me if I am wrong some guy you like told you he might break up with this girl in college him just might go out with you. Girl if he was head over heels for ya he would have dumped her and went to you but promising you that he just might go out with you one day down the road is stupid. So my answer is no.
2007-02-25 16:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Aleshia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already in a relationship yet telling other girls he's willing to break up with his current girlfriend I would have to say he's not thinking clearly about how to treat someone he cares about.
If he has a girlfriend he should be honest with her first and tell her he wants to start dating other people. I don't feel you should go out with him if he asks. What happens when he goes to college and there's a whole campus of new girls for him to be searching through? Where does that leave you other then 3 hours away?
2007-02-26 00:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by bundleofjoy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not because when he goes off to college, he won't want to deal with some little high school chick. He will want college girls. and plus you'll probably will get jealous especially if he's living on campus around all those girls. It will be impossible to know if he's cheating. but if you guys are just dating and nothing serious is going to develop out of it, I'd have t say go for it.
2007-02-26 00:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by xeno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says he "might ask you out if he breaks up w/his girlfriend?" I would never ever want to be anyone's 2nd choice. (And don't you stand for it either. And the fact that he "might" ask you out is just leading you on, perhaps making you think, "maybe someday." I say he's not worthy of you and to just leave him alone. You deserve the best someone has to give you as I am guessing you are wanting to give the best to someone in return. Don't settle for anything less.
2007-02-26 00:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by annecsabagh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I would have to say no because of the distance and what he said to you about breaking up with his g/f sounds like a line to me, that he would use on other girls too. I think you should play it safe and not even try and find someone else.
2007-02-26 00:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't trust the guy He won't probably even care about you once he reaches college he will think of you as just some high school girl.
2007-02-26 00:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u take out the first 2 sentences, that would be exactly my situation. im a freshman in college and she's a sof in hs.
we have been goin out for bout 2 months now. i thot it was gon last forever cuz we both really fell for each other. but no...long distance relationship is unpredictable. love jus faded. i aint talk to her the same way like before. my love aint the same. iuno about her. i think she still likes me. i want to break up but i just dont wanna hurt her. and the reasons y i wanna break up cuz...
...u no wut, just dont go for it cuz ur gon have a hard time like i do now.
2007-02-26 00:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful, sis.
if you are for each other, love will direct your paths to cross again.
(ew! cheesy). try looking nearer like guys your batch.
And no need to hurry. When someone does come along, get to know him well first before "falling" in love.
2007-02-26 00:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like this boy a lot and it's not just because hes a senior then ya
2007-02-26 00:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he asks, I don't trust guys wh set up girls just in case they lose their g/f
2007-02-26 00:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋