i like my best friends boyfirend. and i know for a fact that she knows that. i have told her because i dont like to keep secrets from her. and she wasnt mad all she said was that i trust you not to act on those feelings and it has been like 2 months and it is gettin harder and harded not to act on what i a feeling. i dont want to be a bad friend and i always put my friends first before anything else but i cant help who i like you know?
how do i hide my feelings even tho i dont wnat to?
2007-02-25 16:43:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are You your best friend's friend? If so, act like it and leave her boyfriend alone!
If you don't care about keeping her as a friend, feel free to steal him away if you can.
It's almost impossible for you to have both, so just pick one!
2007-02-25 16:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear lovelybit
Never go after your friends lover your sisters or Mom's lover. This shows no class. The is unwritten rules that you will learn as you get older and more mature. What goes around comes around is the saying.How long do relationships last in your age. I bet if you said nothing she would have been happy to give him to you in a month or so. Now she will date him longer just because you said something. Find an other guy and wait your time and they will brake up and she would be happy to give him to you and you can find a new girl friend also.. Your friends should be your friends forever through many different guys and over many years. Your friends should know more about you than your boy friends as you should never tell your boy friends about the lovers before him. Your girl friends should know every thing about you. They should know you better then you know your self. Good luck you will mature one day and look back on this and see how wrong you were.
2007-02-25 16:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! i'm no longer even going to ask how previous you're in the previous i propose you *no longer* to get sexually in contact. basically from what i've got examine right here, i do no longer have confidence him. you have in hassle-free terms been relationship 3 weeks. he's your first boyfriend. ok, i'll ask ... how previous are *you?* He stated: in case you haven't any longer have been given intercourse .. your hymen will turn problematical you will never be waiting to have intercourse or young little ones you're a virgin. all your human beings did no longer know approximately intercourse and that they have got all had intercourse so as that they stated you may desire to? no longer something approximately what you have written exhibits you're waiting for intercourse. intercourse is a huge accountability, that is to no longer be taken gently, that is to no longer be provided after understanding somebody for 3 weeks, and on no account by way of fact he's making up all varieties of lies to convince you to have intercourse.
2016-09-29 22:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullshit. So you would hurt someone you claim is your best friend because you like her boyfriend? Does your friendship actually mean anything to you? You can help who you like. You are not a slave to your emotions. What can you not get a date of your own? Do you have to deal with both of them? Only hang with your friend and just forget her boyfriend. Because your thinking of crossing a really bad line.
2007-02-25 16:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends come and go, but best friends are not so easy to find. I lost my best friend over a girl once, (he asked my ex out). It's difficult to hide your feelings, even if you think you are hiding them, you may not be. Try to avoid difficult situations, such as being alone with him.
Your friend sounds nice and she trusts you.
2007-02-25 16:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by david t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else. that would work. Definately don't act on it. use eharmony.com or something, that site really works pretty well
2007-02-25 16:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mosh Pit Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, who do you value most, your friend or her boyfriend?
2007-02-25 17:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
morally you know it's wrong, so listen to yourself. please don't do your friend dirty cause then she will hate you forever & never forgive you.
2007-02-25 16:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋