I LOVE THIS DUDE ME AND HIM WERE REALLY CLOSE THEDN HE WENT BACK TO HIS EX AND NOW THER DATING BUT I CANT GET HIM OUT MY HEAD 0R OUT MY HEART EVER TIME I C HIM I CANT BREATH AND WHEN I HEAR HIM TALK OR JUST HEAR HIS NAME I CANT BREATH HE IS 6 YEARS OLDER THAN ME BUT I CANT HELP IT I DONT EVEN NO IF HE EVEN LIKES ME BUT I LOVE HIM IS IT WROUNG
2007-02-25 16:38:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that there is nothing wrong if you love someone, but if he is going to get merried, I am sorry to say this, but I think he is in love with that person. So you have to forget him, just try not to think about him, I know it's hard but you can't change anything he is dating someone else, so try to love someone else, who is in your age, and who loves you too. good luck
2007-02-25 16:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by manleanbest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to love him as long as you're not acting on it. You can't help how you feel. But let your heart thump and your blood rush every time you see him and walk in the other direction. Before you know it you'll realize your not even thinking about him anymore. And remember he is marrying someone else, not you, so that has to give you an idea where his feelings lie This is part of life, it hurts, it aches and you think you're going to die....but you won't. If he is six years older than you he is probably to old for you anyway, you're both going to keep growing and maturing and ultimately grow apart from each other.
So try to hang in there, it will take time, but it will get better.
2007-02-25 16:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong you did have a relationship. However, he made his choice and went back to ex
At this point you need to move on stay away from places that you know he may be at, avoid him at all cost. Start to have fun with your friends and family, Get involved in other activities, anything that will keep your mind busy.
Good Luck and Best Wishes.
2007-02-25 16:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously in love with a man that doesn't share the same feelings for you.If he loved you he wouldn't be with another woman and the sooner you realize this the better off you'll be or else you'll end up getting hurt in the long run.Find someone that loves you as much as you love him.He's with who he wants to be with and it's wrong for you to be that deep in love with someone who might have 0 interest in you,you're hurting yourself.
2007-02-25 16:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a creep. He's left and you're better off without him if you are not his #1. Get over him.
I'm sorry you are having a hard time now. It leaves you open to find someone who feels the same about you as you do about him.
2007-02-25 16:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Susan M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't choose your feelings, but you can choose what to do about them. In this case, you're talking about a man 6 years older than you who is committed to someone else. Don't you think dwelling on your feelings for him is unproductive??
Do yourself a favor, limit your contact with him and begin focusing on other things. Before you know it, you'll have other things to think about.
2007-02-25 16:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong for having feelings for someone. But he doesn't have feelings for you if he did he would have asked you out. In the future, don't waste your time with someone who doesn't share the same feelings, you'll always end up getting hurt believe me i know, been there done that.
2007-02-25 16:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to learn from the men who make your heart skip a beat. Use this to identify what you like and then seek it when you start dating other men. It's also important to identify what you don't like (ex., he's giving his heart to someone else that isn't you) and find someone else who can reciprocate what you have to offer.
2007-02-25 16:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah it's wrong, you home wrecking hussy. What's wrong with you? Obviously he doesn't care the same way about you as he does her or else he wouldn't be with her, now would he?/ If you do anything with him, just remember that Carma will come back and bite you in the a*s.
2007-02-25 16:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by xeno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wrong for you. you the one that will get your heart broke, he
does not feel the same about you if he marry some one else.'time
to move on and find your special guy, he out there you just need
to start looking past this man.
2007-02-25 16:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋