My ex-boyfriend is telling people my personal things, its vey embarrasing and degrading, to me the only thing it proves is how immature he is but why is he doing it?
2007-02-25 16:21:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he is immature, when men get hurt they like to try to get back at the person who hurt them. he does this so it helps him to feel better about himself, he sounds like a very immature jerk. It will usually come back on him at some point, try to act like it does not bother you and maybe he will lose interest maybe and find something else to do. good luck.
2007-02-25 16:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by spindizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered this on the head already. He is immature and trying to show how "big" he is by telling your secrets when all he is doing is showing his weakness. You shouldn't sink to his level and retaliate by revealing his though. Karma will bite him in the patookie when the time comes to get his.
2007-02-26 00:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by frogs4327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's a lil' b****. He's just complaining. But most of all, he's mad so he feels that he needs to release some anger. But this is natural for anyone to do. Yet , you're right. It's childish though. But don't worry. Karma will bite him back in the a**. Peace!
2007-02-26 00:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because like u said, he s immature,hes just doin that because he isnt over u and he thinks that if he does that u might like him,boys just do that because wen they get hurt they dont like to show that it bothers them,if he knows that it s botherin u then he will keep on doin it,just tell him off, thats wat i would do, tell him that he is just an immature jerk and that u cant even believe that u went out w/ him!,and if u ever did tlk to him that u would never even think about tellin him personal stuff,and that wen u brake up it usually just brings their friendship closer but not in this case.
2007-02-26 00:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a jerk...maybe trying to get even with you for being hurt...or just to hurt you because he is a jerk. He is wrong to do it.
Next time you are involved with someone, keep some of your secrets to yourself...or things that you don't want others to know, to yourself until you KNOW that person will keep your secrets.
He's just a jerk...
2007-02-26 00:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by MeYellowKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an immature jerk. Call your Senator and Congressman, it should be legal to shoot people like that
2007-02-26 00:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not mature for doing this at all! Well, tell people that he is disrespecting you, and you would be surprised what they can do. They will make him stop and tell people to stop talking to him. Slowly you will gain power and he will loose it.
2007-02-26 00:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be trying to ruin your reputation out of jeaoulsy..do you have another boyfriend? did u break up with him? all these are possibliltys i would try and talk to him and tell him to knock it off he is hurting your feelings
2007-02-26 00:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Colie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off...get some other guy friend to talk to him..
knee him in the balls
2007-02-26 00:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as you said he is immature..... but he should not do that
2007-02-26 00:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋