Depression couldnt top what i have could someone explain ?

Question

hi im Ali {im not under my sn its my friends} im 20 yrs old and i think im suffering from depression ....as of 4 months ago i started dating my ex bf {who seemed like a catch at the time} recently things are always my fault ....he says i lie all the time when all i do, is ask him why should he go thru my fone if i pay my bills and when i look thru his fone he flips {but mind u i paid for the phone} just hes always pointing the finger at me when i asked him today does he think he has some anger management issues he told me that its all in my head .....but the story gets worse ....he tells me to leave his house and then takes it back ....he asks for the room keys then gives them back ...am i crazy or can someone explain why ive been so depressed and moody likely

i left this out weeks ago we got into a fight where i couldnt take it ...i wanted him to see what he was going to lose and grabed a knife ....problem was i didnt know it was sharpen and i ended up cutting one inch to deep and ended up getting 14 stitches ....all because i couldnt handled the fights and i let him get to me

Answer 1

This could be blunter than you want, but I would have to assume you've been more depressed than usual because you're dating a manipulative @sshole. Get rid of and over him and you'll probably be back to normal.

Answer 2

First of all LOSE THAT JACK ***!!! You deserve better. It sounds like he is just bringing you further down.
Now that that is out of the way...
If your moodiness persists after he is gone, talk to your doctor about your problems. I had trouble with moodiness. The only way I can explain it was that I felt like I had PMS all of the time. I would jumpt from one extreme to the other. One minute I was fine and the next I was rageing and throwing things. Then the next minute I was crying. I went to my doctor and he decided that we should try effexor xr!! All I have to say now is thank God for letting someone invent such a wonderful drug!!! I feel like me again!! I know a lot of people on it and the only bad thing I have heard about it is coming off of it. If you do it the right way and wean yourself off under a doctor's supervision it is fine.

Answer 3

First of all, I'm sorry you feel so hurt over this, and you have a right to be.
It does sound like you have an untrusting boyfriend and (I don't know if this is true) it sounds like to me that he blames you for things just to have someone to blame. It also sounds like you hit a sensitive spot with your boyfriend. If this goes on for too long, I would go out on a limb to say that he may be mentally and psychologically abusive..If things get too much worse, I'd consider a restraining order and I would take his phone away if it is yours.
Hope I helped.
I went through something similar.

Answer 4

You're only twenty years old and you're putting yourself through all this? It's difficult for people sometimes to realize that there is a great, big world ouot there, and they DON'T have put up with one guy's behavior that is obviously having a real negative effect on you and how you look at the world. You don't have suffer with or about this situation. Believe me, there are guys out there who will provide you what you need in a relationship. What you have now isn't.

Answer 5

It sounds like the boyfriend is the issue, the depression is the result. You hurting yourself to see if he cares is an issue that needs to be addressed by a professional. No one is worth hurting yourself over. If you are close to your family, ask for their help getting out of this controlling relationship (you will need support). If you aren't close to them, contact a friend or if all else fails your local women's shelter. Then, get in touch with your local mental health clinic.

Answer 6

Okay so first of all you have a reason to be upset all the time... your boyfriend is an asshole. And usually if the person you are dating is looking though your phone and is suspicious of you all the time than there is a possibility he is cheating. It also seems like you are always fighting so if your not happy why don't you just leave him!!

Answer 7

GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN GIRL!
That boy is playing you like a PS3. He is controlling you by making you doubt your own reasoning and that is just down right sick.
Trust me, he knows exactly what he is doing. Haven't you ever heard about a womens intuition? Well it's true women should always trust their first instinct, don't ever second guess yourself.
This is an abusive relationship that could get worse.
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Answer 8

You are not crazy, this guy is very controlling. He is also verbally abusing you(blaming you for things), this could later turn into physical abuse. Get out of this relationship or it will probably get worst. The website below has a list of things that verbal abuser say and do.

Answer 9

I have been treated that way before and if you dont break away from him he will make you feel more giulty for things that arent even your fault. Get away from him hun!