iam really confuized ...c i have been going out with this guy for a couple weks and he says were going out to me and to his friends . But this is girl i tottalley dont even know asks me what my name is and i say brianna and then shes like ow well he told me he was going out with some marissa girl ro something and then i asked him after school iam like do u knwo any marissia girls and hes like ya i know a couple and then iam like r ugoing out with any of them ( just to c what he would say) and then hes like no then iam like why and hes likee becaus i thought we were bf and gf ( going out) and then iam like ya kool
also
i never really hang out with him in public places lke the mall he always comes to my house or i go to his and i c him at school and stuff and hes really sweet like one time i was on his skateboarda and he held my hands
but i just have so much to say i wrote this letter and i read it to my friend and i was crying cus of all this confuzssion ...help
cheating or not?
2007-02-25 16:16:59 · 14 answers · asked by BRI Bunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like he just does not like you because you sound like your illiterate. learn to speak correctly and that may help.
2007-02-25 16:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by spindizz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just stick with your instincts. You cannot always believe what people say. People will do mean things when they dont want to see people together. You just have to do what you feel is right. Alot of people will betray you and stab you in the back in life. So you just have to be careful, and choose your friends/boyfriends wisely. Anyone can completely surprise you at any time. Its better to have a few true friends than alot of fake friends! As you and this guy start to spend more time together you will get to know him better. You may start to find things you do not like, or find that you really like him alot. Either way, just keep your gaurd up. You never know what someone may do to hurt you when you tought they actually loved you. Do what your heart tells you to. Signs that he MAY be cheating: doesnt always answer when you call, doesnt call you back when he says, starts acting different (less interested) .... You can always question him about things. He should have no problem answering them if hes not guilty. These are just a few things from experience I thougth i would share. Hope it helped. Good luck in everything you do! Lifes a big adventure, have fun and live it up! Lifes to short, so live it how you want and let nobody drag you down. Be yourself, do not lower or change who you are for anyone. Your truest, closest friends will stick by your side through it all! If you shall fall along the way, pick yourself up and try, try again!
2007-02-26 00:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if cheating is the right word. Seems to me you aren't in an actual relationship until you both really know you are. I think honestly you should either:
a) Not give into social pressures so easily and trust the person you are supposed to be in a relationship with.
b) Sit him down and tell him that he needs to make up his mind about whether he wants to be in one with you.
AND you should, though it may be hard, realize that this isn't the end of the world, but just the first of many horrific dating experiences you shall encounter...
2007-02-26 00:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by DavisWalk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should start telling him what you want to do. If you want to go to the mall tell him. If you want to go to a movie or bowling tell him. Let him know up front that you want to be taking out in public, and if he won't then you become busy all of a sudden.
If he cares about you he will change he's ways.
2007-02-26 00:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if hes cheating but i wouldnt listen to someone you dont know first of all youve only been seeing him for a couple of weeks so you really dont know too much about him yet if things seem like hes trying to cover up things then i would qustion the relationship keep your eyes and your ears open and good luck
2007-02-26 00:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by jalyn710@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the girl that told you that is jealous and wants to be with him herself and my personal advise would be to confront him with the issue and tell him what you heard and dont let him know that it upsets u in any way because he will think you are desperate and theres no other way you can find some-one else if he admittes it my advise iis to dump him right on the spot before he dumps you.........
2007-02-26 00:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by The Windows Expert®©™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ok soooo oh my head
but he probelly isnt cause well from what ive read its avvious but OK
ill tell the truth YEP YEP YEP hes cheating on you im so sorry but it does sound like he is
IM SO SORRY
2007-02-26 00:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by ҉Single Chick~a~Dee҉ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever see the movie, "John Tucker Must Die"?
2007-02-26 00:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by ☆Kristi☆ Lucy Jane's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE may be cheating. BUT are you bf+gf? HE may just want to be friends. ASK HIM.
2007-02-26 00:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk. u need to talk and if u feel that he is lying then u need to let go. but if it is other people saying that he is cheating u go w/ur heart and not with others
2007-02-26 00:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋