First question:
Guys: Are you scared of girls but still like girls?
Girls: Are you scared of guys but still like them?
Second question:
I'm 17 and I get asked out a lot but I never said yes cause I'm scared.
What should I do?
2007-02-25 16:06:45 · 7 answers · asked by cruel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its normal to feel uneasy about the opposite sex. If you dont want to date someone thats fine. Try to build up trust with someone you like and take it slow. Its more fun that way.
2007-02-25 16:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only get scared if I like the girl very much, it kinda intimidates me but i get over the fear and get through...
My advice for you, say yes for once in a while, you will realize it's not that hard, if you don't like the guy who asks you out it will be better for you, cuz you won't be scared of making mistakes, you've got nothing to lose. Then after a few dates you'll get more confident and eventually will lose the fear.
Good luck.
2007-02-26 00:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be intimidated by guys until I realized they are just as scared as girls are. The best way to get over being nervous/scared around guys is to start hanging out with them more. When they ask you out, say yes. All you do is talk on the dates.. eventually it gets a lot easier. I used to never say anything to guys and now all of my real close friends are guys. Good luck!
2007-02-26 00:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by christypooh87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared? Nah i dont think so! Nervous yeah, especially when the girl is really hot, ya know! but it's a feeling that comes the first second of the date and goes away immediately! I really had some great dates even though my english wasn't good, i made the girl laugh and all! i think it's up to you!
2007-02-26 00:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by BlackFrenchBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the one who makes you feel excited and not scared. Being nervous about dating in one thing but being scared is another. You will meet one person who makes you feel more comfortable, thats the one to date.
2007-02-26 00:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say Im scared but yeah... its nerve racking going out with someone for the 1st time
Loosen up... and have fun!
2007-02-26 00:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you be sacred?, the worst thing that could happen is you do bad and it doesn't matter because you will gain experience and do better next time. I'm not sure what you are scared of.
2007-02-26 00:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by lisander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋