its almost 2 months now we been going out. i loved her. but now my love aint the same anymore. iuno wut happened. i thot its gon last forever =(
prolly cuz its long distance relationship and i dont get to see her that much. so prolly the feeling faded over time.
and sometimes i feel like its a one-way relationship too. like...i can understand that im the one have to go through everything to see her such as taking buses, train, waiting in the cold, etc...but i didnt like it wen she didnt give anything to me for Valentine Day.
i dont talk to her that much now. i honestly think my feelin toward her is jus a friend now. but i no she is very sensitive and i dont want her to get hurt.
i want us to be friends. im goin to college and i have alot of stuffs to be responsible for. wut should i do?
2007-02-25 16:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by Nano 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun if you have to ask complete strangers what we think maybe it is time.
go with what you think is right for the both of you. things dont always turn out the way you wanted them to and theres nothing wrong with that. you two will just have to look for someone else
2007-02-25 16:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude my ex girlfriend is doing the same thing to me as you are doing her. My ex is just afraid of hurting my feelings but thing is not tell me is hurting more. You just need to be honest with her. Now if you still think it can work then try but if there is no way it will work out then tell her. She will respect that more then if down the road after dragging her around you tell her. Trust me you need to tell her how you feel and listen to her at the same time and tell her that you still want to be Friends though. good luck dude
2007-02-26 00:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Blake B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break it off. It sounds like you want to be free. Long distance relationships are not for everyone. I think you have to be with someone for a long time and really have a foundation before you can spend that much time apart and be okay.
I know she is sensitive, but just be honest and open with her. That's about all you can do.
2007-02-26 00:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After only 2 months and the feelings are fading...don't stay in the relationship. Leave the relationship and concentrate on college. The girl will recover fine. The longer you wait, though, the harder it will be.
2007-02-26 00:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that if she really cared about the relatioinship, she would hhave made more of an effort to keep it a 2-way one. If I were you, I would end the relationship, because it;s not helping wither of you if it's not working out. It only limits you and makes you feel guilty.
2007-02-26 00:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Verry Berry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep doing your own thing,
she feels the same about you,
it fades with time,
that's why she didn't even care
about the Valentine's Day anymore
Are you crazy?
You've abused her,
and expected she will think about
love and Valentine's Day?
You must be
out of your mind.
2007-02-26 00:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by AnnaP. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her what you just said, sounds like you already have your mind made up. Go with what you are feeling. Always be honest to yourself
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 00:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by ms75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump her basically she didn't give u anything for v day.And u have to find another girl that u can love and treat u much better than her.
2007-02-26 00:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've already answered your own question.
2007-02-26 00:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋