This girl has been on and off with me for ages....and i dont know what to do. At the start we were really good mates, then she started taking me to lunches, movies etc...and when she broke it off with her ex, she told me to go comfort her, which i did, but didnt go any further, as i didnt want to be the rebound. Soon after, she got angry at me(dont ask why i dont know), and didnt taslk to me properly for ages...one thing i did notice, i never ever once asked her to go out to lunches, she always done all the work back then....???2months gone,and now we went to the movies together, i asked and she accepted, and also we went out during the day just mucking around, and she was acting like she used to which was great.....i dont know whether she likes me as a friend, or whether its something elsE?....she does seem to be more interested again, and is talking to me properly again now. Thing is i really like her, but dont want to ruin what we have. what could i do in a subtle way to show her?
2007-02-25 15:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know why, but i feel she does have a soft spot for me.
2007-02-25 15:59:49 · update #1
She did just break up with her b/f last year around decemberish...the same time she roughly stopped really talking to me...and now shes coming right again...whats this mean
2007-02-25 16:13:45 · update #2
my honest opinions is to move on , if you and this girl have been
on and off, time to find someone else. she sound like she only
want you when it good for her. and that not good. you need to
find someone that appreciate you, she does not.
2007-02-25 16:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was mad at you because she wanted you to be with her! When you didn't see her for awhile, she cooled off and realized that she still liked you. If you don't want to ruin what you have with her, talk to her about how you feel. She's probably waiting for you to make a move on her, and if you don't do something soon, she might back out and you could lose her. Maybe YOU could ask HER out and show her that you care about her, and if you REALLY think that going out with her would ruin both your friendships with eachother, then you should leave it alone. Do what your heart says.
2007-02-25 16:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she has taken you out to lunches and to the movies and you have comforted each other then i would think that she also enjoys you doing things for her this is just natural. Keep giving her the affection that she needs and be good to her the way she is good to you. Maybe a nice card would be appreciated. Later on some perfume or a necklace or bracelet. Some small thing that you would think she would like. Good luck and I hope your dreams and wishes come true.
2007-02-25 16:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like something i went through with my boyfriend. When we were together it was awsome, but it was kinda back and forth, and really confusing. My friends told me to walk away...but truely i knew there was a connection between us. Finally i brought it up, and asked him what he wanted. And i found out it wasn't me. I was hurt, but when i think back i'm glad i asked or else i'd just be wasting my time. So even though it's going to be tough, ask her what she wants, and speak from the heart let her know how u feel. Then when everything is said and done, you will know what she wants, and u can go from there. Good luck!
2007-02-25 16:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by mariapie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good your getting back in again. but i would go a bit slow and see how she shows you signs if its more than friendship or not. its too soon to tell right now. So go out with her a few more times and see how she is with you and you her. you may want to drop some hints about you and her and see how she responds to you
2007-02-25 16:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take several deep breaths, make a decision and follow through with it. You guys should talk about it. I know it sounds like a risk, but if you dont then you will always go through life wondering what if.
2007-02-25 16:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by eli_213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to those 'more than friendship' places; just to create a romantic atmosphere. she'll get the point without u having to tell her. a nice dinner will be great. and buy her gifts if u must (not like jewellery or stuff like that tho) but more like flowers. ask her out more then things will develop slowly.
2007-02-25 16:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to talk to her, ask her, tell her that u don't want to ruin what u have but if things progressed how would she feel about that. I'm guessing she is going to say she wouldn't mind.(",)
2007-02-25 16:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she seems like she is the brake off back on type but if you like her then jsut tell her the truth and do a part of the work
2007-02-25 16:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋