Went out with this girl. We broke up and then she came back to me. But now I have no idea what we are. Its been almost two months and she still won't make me her boyfriend again. She says she wants to have sex when she gets married, so we are not intimate although we use to be. This is very hard for me because we use to do everything but now we don't. She tells me its not me and that she just doesn't want to do anything. My friends tell me she will when a guy she likes comes a long. This makes me angry and makes me never want to talk to her. But at the same time I love her and don't want to leave her for this reason. I have no idea what she is trying to do. Please help. She says we rushed into things. But I don't know what to do to show her that intimacy is a very important part of the relationship. She won't even kiss me back because she says I might expect something. Should I let this go and move on but still talk and hang out? Or leave her be?
2007-02-25 15:48:12 · 3 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it really depend on how long you been with this girl. . but you need
to talk to her and find out what the deal really is, if you broke up
and got back together and you dont know if you are really together
that a problem. time to put the card on the table so that both of
you can know where this is going.
2007-02-25 15:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's decided that physical relationships are all men want and she wants to find a guy that can love her as a person without having her body. If you can show her you love her in other ways, with gifts and words and actions. and really love her soul, then she'll see you as worthy of being the one she breaks her celibacy with.
2007-02-25 23:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by SoShyFyi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it as it it is. Maybe she wants you two to start it out right so you can go on a more serious stuff like marriage.
2007-02-25 23:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋