Do I have a problem?

Question

I never had a b/f and I am 18yrs. I am 5' 8" 136lbs, have a clear face (I even model for top places), and I am friendly. Why can't I get a date?

I have asked 2 guys out before but all they wanted to do is sexual stuff and I am not ready for that.

Answer 1

There could be a number of reasons that you are still single.

1. Guys may feel that you are above there standards and they feel intimidated by you and they fear rejection.

2. You have set your standards of the guy that you want to high.

3. You really aren't as friendly as you say you are.

I could go on and on. The only one that knows you is you i'm sure you know the real reason that you are still single. If not maybe you should do some soul searching to find out who you are before you start the bf search.

Answer 2

Guys may assume that you are already taken or if not, that you would not be interested in them. Some of my guy friends have admitted that they find some good-looking women intimidating, and therefore won't approach them, let alone ask them out.

If you are interested in someone, you may have to be the one to initiate contact and ask them out. Or ask your friends to introduce you to some of their friends - go on group outings or dates so you can get to know them and them you.

Good luck!!

Answer 3

I bet girls are just intimitated by you. A lot of girls don't try to be foward with someone who they think is so cute or seems so perfect that they MUST have a girlfriend. Maybe try beng a little more foward and let them know your available. Maybe you've just been trying the wrong girls. Good luck!

Answer 4

I am 19 and still didn't have a girlfriend, you tell me why can't I date yet. Just be yourself and you will find your special someone.