im a freshman in college, have been dating the same girl for over a year and a half. we love each other, have God in our lives and realize taht a strictly physical relationship is wrong. we have become more serious and talk about marriage, if we do it wont be soon, 3-4yrs more. waht you yall think
2007-02-25 15:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think you are on the right path. In three or four years' time you will likely have a much better idea of if the two of you are compatible for life. For now, don't worry about marriage; there's no need to make a decision on something so soon. Just enjoy the relationship in all its depths.
2007-02-25 15:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by somebody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my sister met a guy off a dating site, she met him last July, she got pregnant from him in August, she is due in May, they are getting married this September comming up.
If you love each other. I would say go for it, it is up to you two to make that decision.
I am not pregnant, I am a single mother, I love being single. I would never marry a man that fast either like my sister did or is doing. Relationships take time to develop. Finish your school, live together for awhile. You can always live like a common-law for a bit, to test out waters. I lived with my ex on and off 10 years, we were common-law...but not anymore. I split with him just over 3 years ago.
I wanted to marry him at one point....That was 3 years into the relationship though, but for me in my situation, I am glad I didn't marry him in the end. Each is different to their own.
2007-02-25 15:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi! those days ppl divorce so easily, and that i'm getting so annoyed with it!!!!!!!!!! every person eles?? anyhow, i dated my new hubby for 4 a million/2 years b4 we've been given married. How long could you wait? i'm completely not attempting to be rude, yet thats a variety of dumb question. i think of you are able to have a minimum of a pair of vast debates (or arguments) and you are able to see the different individual in one in each and every of those situations. comprehend how they react and respond......a minimum of a 365 days i think of. Marriage is a super, sacred subject. admire it and dont rush into it.
2016-10-16 12:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about God, but go ahead get married, just use protection until you are out of school. The babies need your income and having just a high school diploma isn't anything. I have three kids and a Bachelor's Degree, it isn't enough.
2007-02-25 15:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are adults, and you have God-given biological urges. Rather than risk sin, get married, but absolutely DO NOT have children until both of you have completed your education.
2007-02-25 15:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school and live together for a while first.
2007-02-25 15:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Finish school.
2007-02-25 15:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until you can spell "before."
2007-02-25 15:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by KATYA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋