If your bf of about 10 months while driving home from work in the morning a decided to look around for his ex. gf who lives in another town on the way.At 7 a.m because he knew she used to walk the dog around that time?He then asked her to hang out and attempted to hook up (sex with her) but she turned him down.Was she just a booty call or does he have feeling for her?I told him never to speak to her again and they have had no contact for 6 months?was he just looking for someone on the side or is our realationship in trouble?
2007-02-25 15:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This meeting was recent after 6 months of no contact
2007-02-25 15:40:25 · update #1
He was looking for someone on the side AND your relationship is in trouble... how is it not? He tried to cheat on you, and you're just acting like it wasn't a big deal... he wanted to have sex with his g/f.. i'd say that's definitely a booty call, and it definitely means your relationship is in trouble..
2007-02-25 15:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if my bf did that to me, I would be upset!! jk I'm a man!! If they really have had no contact in 6 months then it was probably just a booty call, but it is impossible to tell. If they were together for a long time, then it is almost undoubted that he still has feelings, but they will probably never go away. If he really hasn't had contact with her and he isn't just hiding it from you, then he obviously likes you, he still likes her, but he likes you MORE!! Hope I helped
2007-02-25 23:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by zsmith789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look away it will bite you from behind at some time. If six months ago you told him that you were unhappy and he should stop and he has then you don't need to look away. He has given your feelings the respect they deserve and acted on that. If he has now gone back on that promise you need to confront it and either end his cheating or end the relationship.
2007-02-25 23:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously was looking for her, so it means he wanted something with her but maybe now that its been 6 months, he must have realized what he's got with you or realized the ex does not care for him. i'm sure this gave you some insecurity in your relationship becuase even after 6 months you are still questioning...so maybe, ask yourself, do you trust him? and are you able to get past it and is he worth trusting...
2007-02-25 23:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy cause if the person I'm talking to takes time out to go find somebody he's supposed to be over with i would think he trying to get her back and so i would take the time to sit and talk to him....just because he said he well just cause he told YOU they weren't going to talk anymore doesn't mean they're not
2007-02-25 23:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your relationship is seriously in trouble, your boyfriend is still in love with the girl, and dont even tell that the girl is a booty call, you see the one who made the crime here is your boyfriend, and you would be a fool to stay with him
2007-02-25 23:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some real, honest guys out there, and they'd never would put themselves in such a situation if they truly cared for you.
2007-02-25 23:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIG TROUBLE!!
THIS IS WHY MEN DO THIS STUPID ****.. BECAUSE WOMEN ACTUALLY QUESTION THIS STUFF.. IF HE'S LOOKIN AT 7AM HE'LL BE LOOKIN @8@9@10 NEED I GO ON...
DUMP HIS *** AND HE'LL HAVE THE TIME HE NEEDS TO HOOK UP WITH HIS EX.
2007-02-25 23:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... dump the bastid!! NOW!! Baaaaad warning sign.
2007-02-25 23:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jefe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look the other way! this guy is a jerk and you deserve better!
2007-02-25 23:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋