I don't understand. What do y'all think?

Question

I'm a college freshman, and there a girl of my interest. She used to look at me a lot in the first few week of the semester. We don't know each other that much, but I always initiate a conversation. I actually gave her a small Valnetine's Day card, saying I would like to get to know her better. When I was giving it to her she seemed surprised at first, but she smiled and accepted it. Anyway, that's not what's important. I thought we were getting closer, but it seems like we aren't. I wrote on her facebook wall today, but she never wrote back. I know she always writes back to her housemates, but not to me. And that makes me sad. She is very friendly to her housemates, but not that friendly to me. I am always the one that starts the talking, and I dunno. Sh*t. I wonder if she's just playing hard to get or if she has no interest in me whatsoever. I am sorta trying to give up, but I find it very hard because I have never felt an attraction to a girl that is this strong. I am in great pain.

Answer 1

Why don't you ask her out just as friends and try to get to know her. If that's too intense then I would try to infiltrate her crowd of friends so you can hang out in a group with her and get to know her that way. The only way you will really know what she is thinking is if you can be brave enough to talk to her and ask her.