I've never had a boyfriend before (now i am 18). Besides, nobody ever asked me out!! So i dunno if there's anyone who's anyone at all ever has a crush on me.... N there is this guy i have a crush on, but i don't have the guts to tell him that i like him. So i'm not sure whether he likes me or not. The thing is, i'm tired of being single. N being the only one without a boyfriend amongst my friends, it doesnt feel great. Atleast, i'd like to noe there was this time when someone did has a crush on me... help moi!!!
2007-02-25 15:29:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way! you're not weird for being single. Singleness is blessedness....enjoy it while you have it. Cuz literally, once you get married, your life is over. It will no longer be about "me" but will become "us". So ya, enjoy singleness, u can focus on tasks/job/school/personal goals ambitions much better being single.....relationships are only for those who are mature and ready to settle down. Everyone else is just doing it cuz they are shallow and insecure about themselves so they need someone else to make them feel self-worth.
2007-02-25 15:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by calvin_0416 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop comparing yourself to your friends, thats a type of peer pressure. There is nothing wrong with not having had a boyfriend, in fact being 'untouched & pure' makes you more attractive. I'm 21 and havent had a girlfriend...but thats more or less due to Social Anxiety Disorder. Dont worry about it, when you find the perfect person you'll be glad your not already in a relationship. Relationships can be good, but dont forget that they can be abusive and heartbreaking. You might actually be better off being single. Enjoy it, dont lament it.
2007-02-25 16:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, That reminds me of what i went through in High school. I stayed single for a while because I was in some bad relationships before. Then my husband when we were in 5th grade had a crush on me on up until after we graduated asked me out dozens of times and i kept saying no. Don't be afraid to tell that guy how you feel, He might be one of those guys you don't want to let go. You never know.
2007-02-25 15:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kala C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 19 and never had a girlfriend, you are not wierd. Everyone has their own reasons of not having a girlfriend/boyfriend, I guess mine is i didn't talk to much girls due to shyness and I am straight btw and most of my guy friends have girlfriend already. I am on the same boat as you. I would want a girlfriend also. but my scenario is bit different, some girl asked me out but I didn't really respond to that since my friends was like "Eww. You like Courtney." as a joking manner. I know she liked me also. Come to think about it, maybe I should have been with her. Oh well, too late to do anything about it
2007-02-25 15:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 18 years old. You have plenty of time. I did not go out on my first date until I was 18. I came from a very strict family. Just please take it slow. I got pregnant from the first guy I dated and had a baby at 19. Enjoy your life but be careful. You will find that special someone in time.
2007-02-25 15:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre not weird for being single, but you are totally becoming a sell out for wanting to have a boyfriend just because your friends have boyfriends
men are not toys, and having a boyfriend is not a game, if youre not in love why play around
i would only have a boyfriend if i do really feel a strong connection
seems to me you havent loved yourself enough, and because of that you just cant go on getting men so that you can fulfill your wishes
please be mature
2007-02-25 15:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actully its not weird, i've went through that phase and im going through it now! Im 20 and i've went through guys like candy belive me, theres someone out there for you hun! You just have to wait, theres a whole slew of guys you'll find just don't settle on just 1! Continue to go to school, don't let your friends boyfriends relationships pressure you to just go off on the deep-end of relationships. One day you try to wind up with an excellent, loving, kind guy and one day you will get with a guy that treats you sweetly then turn around and stab you in the back. Just like I said, don't settle on just one guy! Experience your life while your still young!
2007-02-25 15:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by rtartt2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember, love is never on time and youre only 18. Give the poor guy (whoever he is) some more time. Us guys grow up more slowly.
2007-02-25 15:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of people are single. There are worse things that could happen in life. Just have confidence in yourself and I'm sure you'll find someone.
2007-02-25 15:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur not weird, just not as experienced as many other girls. But, you have the rest of your life to make up for it. I didn't have my first date until my senior prom, so you are not alone. I didn't have my first boyfriend until my Freshman year. Just don't go boy crazy like I did to make up for lost time. LOL
2007-02-25 15:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋