My husband is Army and now in Iraq and I support him 110%, but my baby cousin (female) wants to join. I dont see it as well for her as I do for him. I have sat and found a million reasons why, I dont want to be selfish I want to state her the facts. I am looking for some reasons that you would not join. Thanks everyone... there truely has to be other options out there.. right
2007-02-25 15:28:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I am adding she is 16 and never left home for more then over night.. she was told she could not join by her mom, and it has made her want it even more, I am just tring to talk her out of it cause I know her she has never finished a thing in her life.. and I dont really want to be mocked cause I am an army wife I was just tring to see what others had to say...
2007-02-25 16:44:05 · update #1
Just gather as much info as you can, like the current military members who have their contracts involuntarily extended, those in non combat jobs that have been killed, etc... Gather this information, give it to her, and if she still wants to join when she is old enough to, then support her 100%. People need to make their own decisions, all you can do is try to provide her with all the facts before she does. I support people joining, BUT only if they have thought it through and really want to make the commitment.
2007-02-25 18:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, odieguy3000 is an idiot. Basic training doesnt last 6 months at all, and ROTC is the Army.
So far, I've gotten more mature, more money, lost 30 pounds, gained experience, pride, ability, and determination from joining the Army. Not to mention four or five different offers for four year scholarships for college from ROTC. They'll pay for college, and my masters (since I want to become a chaplain), and I already have a job waiting for me when I graduate (chaplain).
This really does sound too good to be true, so when people ask my father (a VFW) why everyone doesn't join the Army and get these great benefits, his simple reply is, "You get shot at"
2007-02-25 17:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by tcbcyg 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Joining the military is a personal decision. It's great that you care about your cousin as much as you do. However, while there may be good reasons for some not to join they don't apply for everyone.
My husband was talked out of joining by his parents after graduating high school. He chose law enforcement instead. He won't join now because we have a family. It is the biggest regret of his life that he didn't do it while he was younger and unattached. I'm sure you wouldn't want to have something like that on your conscience.
Edit: The fact that you refer to her as your "baby" cousin belies that you believe she is small and feel protective over her. If she is old enough to join the military she is not a baby and you should not treat her as such.
2007-02-25 15:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nationalist 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
props to your hubby, before i say not so good things about the army.
first off, your cousin shouldn't go because she is a baby. the army doesn't take too well to infants in the force. no squad captain wants to have to change a soldier's diaper.
tell your baby cousin that she could die, will endure six months of basic training. they can tell her she'll get to travel around the world and drive the jeeps, but they can actually send her wherever they please.
she sacrifices her rights as an american
she probably won't look good in fatigues
suggest ROTC to her
2007-02-25 15:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Robbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big reasons why not to join the Army:
1. Air Force lives better.
2. Air Force has better food.
3. Air Force has better deployment conditions.
4. You don't believe in the war.
5. You're afraid of the war.
6. You'd rather go to college... because you're afraid of the war or you don't believe in it.
2007-02-25 15:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by OIF Vet 2x 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have the utmost respect for people who serve in our military. To put it plainly, I do not have the guts to deal with what they are dealing with over there. Since I don't agree with the current administration's choices, I'd be waiting until I felt a decent leader was in charge. Doesn't mean she shouldn't do it, I'm just talking about the timing.
2007-02-25 15:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't address your situation but in some cases, a person might be a conscientious objector, and not want to join an army for religious reasons. Other reasons might be: medical conditions; or if they are needed at home to care for children or elderly parents. But everyone has to choose for themselves.
2007-02-25 15:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by matineeidol 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can understand your concerns. But at the end of the day it is her decision as you know. Simply tell her of your personal concerns and let her decide. If you really want to try and influence her, as you apparently are....then simply ask her why she wants to serve her country and then state an opposing view based on facts or what you can substantiate.
2007-02-25 15:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by iraq51 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Military service often puts you in high-risk situations and your life is often in danger even if you are not in a war zone. Depending on what type of service you choose even training can carry life-or-limb risks. Also, it is common for military service people to engage in peacekeeping missions that are anything but peaceful.
2007-02-25 15:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Amko B 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its none of your business. If she wanted to go to seminary school to be a nun, you would probably support her. You are only against it because its not what YOU prefer. Its her choice, let her make it and support her either way.
2007-02-25 15:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋