ok her friend died i understand but i have to let her go?

Question

ok i went on one date with this girl ,and i told her lets just be friends now she is saying she wants me in her and that she loves me and my opinon matters to her she is so clingy its so dumb how do i nicely say get away from my life today she told me her friend died and she was sad i was just about to block her off my list until she said that i am hurtuing i dont want to hurt this girl but i cant take people being so clingy she acts as if i am the center of her world i hate it I am only 19 years old i am not everything what should i say to her to make her leave

am i bad for wanting to be alone

Answer 1

You need to just tell her...Letting her cling on to you will only make her think you want her...Just block her....

Answer 2

You're not bad for wanting to be alone.

Tell her that she's moving too fast. Console here for a few days, and be around her as little as possible. She'll get the hint.

It sucks, but sometimes thats just how things work... It doesn't make you a bad person.

Answer 3

First off, you are NOT a bad person.
Her friend dying is NOT an excuse to kill you!
This is what she will do as she is smothering you with her affection.
Nothing wrong with you wanting your space.
I actually think you should be commended for knowing what you want and being man enough to say so yet being sensitive to her feelings regarding her recent loss.
Dont beat yourself up. If you were doing this to someone wouldn't you want to know or would you want someone to date you out of pity?
You owe it to both of you to get her out of your life! None of this lets be friends crap tell her and disappear!

Answer 4

tell her you dont want to go out with her, but that doesnt mean that she can't be a mourner with benefits, she'll need all the consoling a man could give her, so give it to her why dont cha?