2007-02-25 15:07:46 · 28 answers · asked by Mr Pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I don't think it's normal, but I think it's ok, and that you have one lucky girlfriend :)
2007-02-25 15:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by sillysinga7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's normal and lovely too. I have been with my husband since we were 13 years old and we are now 37 and we still love each other immensely. I still get butterflies when he comes home from work and on some days my husband will ring me up saying that he's missing me while in work. Thing is though we do have a very healthy marriage where we do things together but also do things apart. We are not obsessive or possessive with one another. I think love goes through different phases. I do think of my husband everyday but not every minute of the day...this would consume too much of the day for me.
2007-02-26 06:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still with the girl then it is not abnormal, just lovely. Thing is we are all made different and you obviously are one of these people who are very deep in your love. Nice for the girl providing you are not over possesive. However there are some who still love very deeply but don't really show it, that doesn't mean they love less. Real lessons of love can be what you endure for the relationship. Some men (not saying you) constantly smother their girl with gestures, presents, spoken words but if times got tough, just one example say if finances were tight would just carry on as usual hoping for an answer. The other non demonstrative person would perhaps find part time work, work extra hours to get his girl and his family out of a situation. Who is to say one loves more? You see we all all different and you can't be judgemental and really measure love. If you are still thinking of a girl after all this time then I am really sorry for your pain. You have obviously been deeply hurt and love(d) her very much. Hate adding to that hurt more but if after all this time you haven't got back together then it's not likely to happen. You must force yourself to move on, going out more etc...........there will be times when you see no point in this but then one day although perhaps far down the line you will see light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck whatever situation you are in.
2007-02-26 06:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and when you get married you may have times off and on where you just can't get enough of each other you want to hold her all day long and sleep in. And sometimes, you may just need a little space, but overall, in a marriage, the longer you are together, the more you realize how much you love the other person.
Good Luck, It is normal. My husband and I dated for six years and have been married for 4.
2007-02-26 00:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is soooo sweet there should be more men out there like you the world would be a better place a perhaps relationships would last longer in this day ans age if we all loved each other longer than 5 mins
Bless you
x
2007-02-27 07:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Louise J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the feelings mutual.
Does this worry you though - cos it sounds to me like
you think you might be a bit obsessive. As you are thinking
about her ALL of the time is it because there is nothing else
to do. I wondered whether you work? If you have any other
friends? Because if it ended what would you do? Don,t
want to worry you or put anxieties there. Because -
I think she is a very lucky girl to find someone like you
to adore her.
2007-02-26 06:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its normal. Because you love her. I've been married to my wife 27 years and I can't stop thinking about her . Sound like you've got a good thing. Continue to treat her with respect, etc. Whats the hold up to marrying her?
2007-02-25 23:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by mitteycole 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, and I do hear it from my wife that its not normal. I love her so much, if you really think about it, its not healthy, you can't be focused on her all the time. Believe me it will only cause problems in the long run, as I am now trying to deal with.
2007-02-25 23:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by nscr2408 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes this is quite normal. I still love my girlfriend after 50.5 years.
I hope the wife never finds out !
2007-02-26 06:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by oldtimer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it causes overly obsessive and possessive behaviour and drives her away, that would be bad. Since it's 5.5 years, sounds like she likes you.
If it makes you happy then call it love and pop a cork.
2007-02-25 23:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by mince42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal, the main thing to realise is that time will heal and sometimes it takes years, but also life goes on and you only get 1 chance so enjoy and meet new people
2007-02-26 01:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋