Looking toward the future, i dont know what to do sexually when im married. i dont know what is considered ok and waht isnt. please comment with any views
2007-02-25 14:58:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Whatever you and your partner both agree to in the privacy of your own home is fine.
God does not watch you have sex and doesn't care about the details.
2007-02-25 15:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm of the belief as a Christian married woman that as long as both partners are in agreement that you can do what you want. I don't believe there's anything written in the Bible that prevents married couples from loving each other to the fullest, as long as there's nothing forced or degrading.
You will know what to do when the time comes. Just love your mate, be patient, treat her special ( I'm assuming you are a man)
and keep the romance alive.
I've bee married twice, I'm 58 yrs old and still a romantic at heart..
I think the intimacy between a married couple is important to keep the marriage alive. My first marriage last 26 yrs but he was an obessive type person and I always told him that it wasn't quanity but quality - he didn't believe me. Without going into details about that, I finally left, and 4 yrs later met my now husband. He has never made me feel like I HAD to do it He's never gotten angry when I didn't want to although those times have been very far and few between
Hope this has been of some help.
2007-02-25 23:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by grandmabonnie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual activity between husband and wife that both agree on and enjoy is fine. This is between husband and wife, not outsiders. Outsiders include such things as pornography, other people, and outside negative influences. You and your partner will learn what each other likes and this will help you to do what you both feel is right. It takes time to learn about each other, the first time isn't always perfect. Its great but there is lots to learn and its fun learning.
2007-02-25 23:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it a question of being okay. That is a question between the two people in the marriage, has nothing to do with being a Christian. Hebrews 13:8
2007-02-25 23:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try reading the Song of Solomon, you might get some insight into both the intimacy of man and woman, and the intimacy of God with his own.
2007-02-25 23:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by ccrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was written by a married man, not a celibate priest (I know some people have issues with that):
http://www.marysremnant.org/News/Archives/MaritalSexuality.html
2007-02-25 23:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever they agree upon. Both must agree. It must not be abusive or unholy by Biblical standards.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-26 07:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as sex is between you and your wife (any position, anything) it is ok. But involviing a 3rd person into it is a no no..
2007-02-25 23:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by Batman Simon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well greg, that is a personal matter that you should discuss with your wife. Mull it over while drinking some wine, I'm sure you'll come up with some good ideas.
2007-02-25 23:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
,,,I recommend you read "The Act of Marriage" by Dr. Tim LaHaye and Beverly LaHaye.
...Another great one is "Intended for Pleasure" by Ed Wheat.
...These are both great resources and will answer most or all of your questions.
2007-02-25 23:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by carson123 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋