my boyfriend an i have been going out since like the 5th of feb. well anyways, i haven't seen him since valentines day and he left on vacation to another state for like a week. he said he would be back on thursday of last week. and he never called me or texted me. so then today he barely texts and says he was really really sorry that he hadn't talked to me. and that he wasn't able to talk to me untill now. but he didn't give me a reason. what do u think?
2007-02-25 14:50:59 · 18 answers · asked by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its up to you what you do...He may have been to busy like he said...
2007-02-25 14:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he has the intention to cheat or lie to u, u wont be able to force the truth out from him at all. its suspicious of him and look, everyone can apologise for whatever they do.
its either that:
1. he's really busy. but actually, there's still no excuse for any guys not to contact his gf even if he's a busy millionaire. 5 minutes to make a call and to say hi isnt going to kill him.
2. he's cheating on u. this is a high possibility
if u demand an answer just ask. if u really want to still be with him, u need to clear this issue. otherwise, u'll get paranoid and this will do none of u good.
2007-02-25 22:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he is hiding something from you. You need to confront him and tell him that what he did bothers you. Be honest with him and tell him just what you told us. He may apologize, but you want an explanation. If he explains and is truthful with you, depending on what it is, try to work things out if you think the relationship is worth it. However, you haven't been dating that long, and if he's keeping something from you now, then he may do it later on, too. Remember, it is always, always up to you. If your gut says that something is wrong, then I would trust your gut. But, always, be honest with him. Tell him why you are leaving him if you do that. Don't make him wonder. Tell him straight up what you didn't like. Be strong.
Amanda
2007-02-26 19:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to find out why he isnt talking to you. they always say they never had time to talk. but honestly is it too hard the last 2 min before you go to bed to call and say goodnight, i am thinking about you or something? i dont know but maybe yall should just have a break or something. talk to him, ask him what he thinks. however, i have broken up with a guy over something exactly like that... and he even admitted to me that he could have called me and he just didnt.
2007-02-25 22:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by danuh_bananuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you heard of the 24 hour rule?
if you dont talk to your bf/gf once in 24hrs then you're technically not together anymore.
idont know to whom it applies really.
its just some thing a stupid teenager made up probably.
but yeah.
give him another shot.
he may have a good reason but doesnt want to share this early in the relationship
2007-02-25 22:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think u should break up w him cuz if u love him n trust him then u shouldnt cuz he might have been busy w the reason y he went on the vacation 2 spend time w his family or on business bt i dont need 2 break up w him
2007-02-25 22:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by killer at will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry trust me you don't want to break up and it was for a personal reason like a death in the family go to him and say what is goin on, i want to know how come your not communicating with me
2007-02-25 22:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't even sound like you were really together in the first place. If he isn't calling you than forget about him, find someone who takes an interest in you and respects you.
2007-02-25 23:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by MetroDetroitGuy25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he would give me a reason , or i would act like i am busy and can't talk to text him just to show him how it feels and when he ask why i would tell him it doesn't feel good does it ,
2007-02-25 22:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by want to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you think. Is this the kind of thing you would be ok with? I wouldnt be. If youre not, then you have to tell him it doesnt work for you and if he cant handle that (which is his perogative) then thats it.
2007-02-25 22:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by SuburbanPhilosopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him in person or over the phone whats going on.
2007-02-25 22:56:29 · answer #11 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋