See alot of this nonsense about waiting and being a virgin till you meet somone specail.
What happens if you dont, or dont till age 84 (bit late then) or die before you meet soone sepcail.
More realitically...
What happens when you meet said person...
if you are totally useless at chatting up, kissing, aint got a clue about dating let alone what to do in bed.
therefore your specail person wont even give you the time of day or reject you straight away.
or you just end up too shy as no confidence as no exerience.
Is it just 15 year olds who assume you will be guaranteed to meet your souplmate in a few weeks.
Rather then getting more and more lonlye and despirate and more hating yourself thinking you are ugley and nobody wants you whilst everyone else gets it all the time and girl/boyfreinds
Likewise say if you dont meet someone till over 30.
What use is that?
They wont want to make out in cinemas, parties etc as done it all. u miss out
2007-02-25 14:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it not common sense that maybe people sleep around as the last relationship ior date did not work out.
What are you supposed to do... If rejected or dumped never try again?
Is there a guarantee that just as you like somone they will like you back?
And that the only reason someone stays with one person is they got lucky enough to meet them at 15. so not need ton sleep around looking for somone special?
etc
And reameber all those uni and teenage sex experiences like the make out in the cinema, the spin the bottle game, the mad party.
Why miss out?
2007-02-25 14:52:12 · update #1
How long do these people expect you to wait?
Till your pension or letter from the uuen if you reach 100 and still have not met mr or miss perfect/
What a waste of a life
2007-02-25 15:03:12 · update #2
Forgot...
If you wait till say 15 you will only be able to date somone 16 as you have to have equal experience in dating and realtioships or the other person will not go out with you as you will be too immature.
Ie your typical 16 year olds is well experienced, done it lods o places, has had various lenght relationships lasting a long time.
And you will be like somone entering a busienss at 25 knowing less then the work experience kid.
2007-02-25 15:05:31 · update #3
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I guess if that someone were special, they wouldn't care if you were inexperianced, and then you could get all you experiance on them, and learn to do things how they like them,
Unfortunelty it does not work like that.
you find somone you really love but becuase you are no good at asking them out or impressing them.
They will guarantee to go for the person who does who started early.
its like going for a job without experience or qualifications against experts
2007-02-25 15:10:48 · update #4
Cracker if people meet somone perfect when say 15 then its like getting the best phone... youbstick to it.
But in the real world many dont get that lucky and go through various phones till they find a good one.
Its better to try various crap phones... then have no phone and nobody can contact you
2007-02-25 22:11:58 · update #5
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Plus first times are often a stressful, painful mess.
2007-02-25 22:12:27 · update #6
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-25 14:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone dumps their partner for being a novice in bed, they aren't exactly that special person, are they?
I think most blokes would feel pretty lucky if they are the first one a girl chooses. What bloke would reject the chance to teach a girl how it's done?
Some people don't want to sleep around and feel they're worth more than a few drinks and a bit of action with any old girl / boy.
Girls that sleep around can get a reputation and find it hard to get a boyfriend because they're no longer respected.
Each to their own
2007-02-25 23:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cracker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess if that someone were special, they wouldn't care if you were inexperianced, and then you could get all you experiance on them, and learn to do things how they like them, not how a plethera of other people do.
2007-02-25 23:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by sillysinga7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that there is someone out there for everyone, you just have to find them, or be patient, but i sure as hell don't believe in waiting until you're married to have sex. It's more like....have fun, and get your kicks in before you find that someone and can't do all that fun stuff anymore. I believe in being true to the one that i love most, but also havning fun, and finding out what's out there before i do.
2007-03-05 22:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with someone (and are a girl) before you reach 16, you get 72 percent more likely to get cervicular cancer later in life.
2007-03-05 09:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Insomnia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
live for today, tomorrow may never come for you.
Live for right now, in all and everything you do.
make it count for you this very day
and don't care what all the prudes might say
for that tomorrow may fail to materialize
and you'll find it's too late that you realize
2007-03-05 20:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its right at the time then go for it - who hasn't done something they regret.
lifes all about experiences and learning from them
2007-03-04 15:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Vimto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while your waiting for this special person,perhaps you could learn how to SPELL
2007-03-05 06:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by pixelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'll have a go.........
"Knowledge is gained by learning."
trust by doubt;
skill by practise;
and love by love......
2007-03-05 20:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well well what a load of bollox !!!
cheers for the points
2007-03-05 17:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by shaun j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋