We were drunk and high, and we made out a little on the way back from a party that we'd been all over each other grinding and such... I really like the boy and he knew I like him. We've hung out more (but not a lot) since, and took the "not talk about it" approach to avoid awkwardness.
according to my female friend who was hanging out with him the other day, he was complaining to her about past relationships and how they all started as drunken hookups, and how he was dumped and treated badly. She thinks he's not really ready for a committed relationship, but likes me, and is conflicted.
I don't know how to bring something like that up and make it clear that I didn't like send my friend to talk to him. He opened up to her and she gossiped to me, and thats not my fault, but it still bugs me. I want to have that sort of conversation with him, cause I think he'll feel better when he sees how similar our histories are, but I feel like it's too late.
Thoughts?
2007-02-25 14:44:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, he isn't gay, and he was very turned on that night.
2007-02-25 14:54:34 · update #1
Smoke another one, burnout.
2007-02-25 14:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Muff Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't bring up what you're friend told you he said. She never should have told you.
The best thing you can do is to be patient. Don't rush this guy into any kind of relationship. Get to know each other. The more time you spend together, and the better he knows you, the more he will see that you aren't going to hurt him, and he will open up. All this takes time, so if you do truly want to be with this guy you'll be prepared to wait.
2007-02-25 14:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 22:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by doolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you took the "not talk about it" approach then prolly it doesnt want to be mentioned anymore... which may mean he doesnt like you and it just happened because yall were drunk and high.
if you want to know the truth, you are going to have to talk to him about it all when yall are both sober. maybe he will open up to you, but maybe not... its a chance you will just have to take
2007-02-25 14:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by danuh_bananuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how awkward it is u should mention it because so far ignoring what happened got u where you are... chat and see what happens and hopefully things wil, work out. if not, then you know that spending ur time with him wont get u anywhere.
2007-02-25 14:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him one time, if he doesnt call back or doesnt pick up..let him go...and take it as hes not that into you, and there are so many more guys out there that wouldnt hesitate to call you.. But try and call once, to break akwardness
2007-02-25 14:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by KOOSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes gay or u dont turn him on
2007-02-25 14:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by james w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋