i am a woman and i been with my man for over 2 1/2 years and he still havent proposed to me, but we have a good relationship.. Y doesnt he propose?? is he just not that into me? what are your opinions?
2007-02-25 14:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Dian, I guess 2,5 years is enough to get to know each other. Now what you have to do, discuss with him, where is the relationship heading to?
Asked him gently ya, and tell him that you are really serious with him.
Sometimes Men, quite scared with marriege, feeling not ready yet, or wahever, infact it`s all only in their thought, on the other hand they wanna make it come true.
I do believe, if you talk to him, the point not to pushing him ya, give a reasonable input, He will understand and making the move.
that what my wife did to me when we were still going steady a couple years a go. Good Luck...
2007-02-25 14:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mans way of thinking is, " If it ain't broke don't fix it." He's happy with things the way they are. He's getting everything he needs from the relationship. If you want more than he's willing to give, let him know you want more. If he's not willing to give you more, maybe you should stop wasting your time with him. I'm not saying he's not a good guy. I'm just saying he may not want any more with you then what he's giving. So ask for what you want and see what kind of response you get.2 1/2 years is long enough for him to know if he loves you enough for marriage.
2007-02-25 14:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by chicklette0008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see where you are coming from but he is probably happy with what you have and doesn't want to mess up a good thing. I don't think he would still be with you after 2.5 years if he wasn't into you. If you are waiting for it or expecting it, when he does propose it won't be as special. Just enjoy what you have and let him do it on his own time.
2007-02-25 14:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kel16IU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is if you ask him. Go ahead and talk to him about how you feel. If he loves you then he will give you an honest answer. So, be clear with him and tell him what is bothering you. You have to do it to clear any obtacles. Probably he just need a little push. Now, in the worst case, if he said no, then, no matter how much you love him, you have to make a choice. I hope everything turn out ok.
2007-02-25 14:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Solaris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend asks me that question too. And although I love her very much she has some problems that I feel she needs to work out before I make a commitment. I'm not going to talk about what they are here. Ask him why you think you shouldn't get married and don't get mad about the response he gives you. If he's being honest with his answers how can you get mad?
2007-02-25 14:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isnt ready to get married!! Have you asked him? Maybe he is comfortable the way things are going. Why do you need a piece of paper if your relationship is great then leave it alone it will come toghter.
2007-02-25 14:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only 3 years [max!!]!!!
Think about that compared to your entire lifetime!!
Just GIVE IT TIME!!!
best wishes!!
2007-02-25 14:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be afraid of commitment.. or maybe just wants to make sure it's perfect for you to be together for the rest of your lives.. marriage is till death.
2007-02-25 14:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience. give it time if it's worth it. talk about it with Him if it is bugging you so much..
2007-02-25 14:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋