Well this guy named Pat was hitting on me AND my friend Amanda but I had a boyfriend, but Amanda was single.
He would tell me that he liked me better than Amanda and everything but I told him I had a boyfriend so he asked out Amanda and they've been going out but he talks to me on AIM a lot and it seems flirty and he comments my pictures on myspace like 'you're a cutie' and stuff, but then he'll talk about how he likes Amanda.
So whats up with this guy? Who does he like, both of us?
2007-02-25 14:26:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't like him, I have a boyfriend who I love, I just want to know what's up with this guy.
2007-02-25 14:32:20 · update #1
This dude is just be flirty. Most dudes you meet at clubs or bars are like that. Good luck ;)
2007-02-25 14:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by C L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be blunt and not spare his feelings ASSUMING you dropped clues to him and have not egged him on to stroke your own ego.
Just flatly tell him you are not interested in him -and he needs to save all that attention for Amanda. If he does not stop flirting (and thats exactly what he's don't) you will forward copies of his Messages to Amanda.. so he cant lie his way out of it.
LAST OF ALL -Do not ever acknowledge any of his AIM messages. DO NOT DELETE any he has sent you already, (keeping your evidence), but block him and refuse any future messages.
Every time you answer him, he feels you are acting on his flirts and fueling his ego. Cut off his fuel supply and dont return messages.
2007-02-25 22:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He likes you both and hormones are a major factor, not to say your not a good person with a good personality but it sounds as tho he might be running on hormones. Which is human thing and not bad, atleast i don't think so.
2007-02-25 22:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Imperialist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he's just having fun and probably doesn't like either one of you that much.He sounds like he is just taking what he can get.Kind of like,what one won't do,the other one will.There are probably a lot more girls out there that he flirts with,trying to see who wants to mess around and who doesn't.
2007-02-25 22:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffani W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a hard core player, just stop talking to him. he wants both of you
2007-02-25 22:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes both of you.
2007-02-25 22:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter he is with your friend.
2007-02-25 22:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋