have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that w would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote "that we can meet up
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"we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing"...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..
2007-02-25 14:22:36 · 14 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Plus...just to give you a few details,...Okay..he works at the gym,..and he had been calling me about working out with him...and the first time I misssed him, the second time I was late, and when I finally met up with him, he was like well when can you come back in, he said how about tommorrow, and I told him how bout next weeek, and he got kinda agaitated, and he said why all the way next week? And he seemed sort of upset, so then when the day came for me to meet up with him, he says, oh I FORGOT...and I knew he was lying because I had seen him earlier that week and he had reminded me of the appointment...then when I finally met up with him, my phone rang , and it was by him, and he actually picked up the phone looked to see who was calling, and said it's your mom, then handed the phone too me...
2007-02-25 14:27:26 · update #1
I know I'm blabbing on...but he also asked me "How come eveytime I come to talk to you you're always leaving? "Am I ruining your gym experience:?
2007-02-25 14:30:12 · update #2
That is weird. I would suggest, give it up. No point hurting your self esteem and troubling yourself.
Could be that he is not ready
Could be that he is really really broke and it is bothering him big time
Could be that he is just avoiding you so that you want him more.
Could be anything - depends on the guy
Think about it!
2007-02-25 15:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Amit Kasliwal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand precisely what's dealing with his head, whether it appears like the dude's have been given subject concerns. If I have been you, i'd tell him which you do not prefer the blended alerts, and it appears like he's dealing with lots superb now, so it is in all probability extra effective if he keeps to be centred on himself like he stated initially. Then replace your locks...in basic terms in case.
2016-10-16 12:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this individual is surely not ready for any long term commitment... as you know, if there is no money then there is no honey... the guy's broke and surely has no time for you... so let it be and move on... with yourself that is...
2007-02-25 14:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Thek Glorias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two haven't even gone out yet, so why are you even thinking in terms of "relationships"?
2007-02-25 14:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certianly wouldn't call him anymore. You made your move so, it's his turn. If he is interested he should call you at this point.
2007-02-25 14:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by timmy h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sheeze...I'm worn out just reading this. Just move on, gal.
2007-02-25 15:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DANG IT GIRL! next time could you be sober when you post a question! SHEESH!
2007-02-25 14:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he works at the Gym then he is queer. Forget it.
2007-02-25 14:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by K. Marx iii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the laddies should be more aggressive with guys like that
2007-02-25 14:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, this guy sucks!!!! Leave him alone and move on.
2007-02-25 14:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by bgbg1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋