Here goes. I am in love with a guy who is no longer making me as happy as I could be. I am still with him because I need him in my life, even as a friend. Yet he tells me that if I end things with him then I can count him OUT of my life. What should I do? Most of the time he and I are awesome together yet here lately he is doing things that are really getting on my nerves and will not stop doing them. Will somebody please please help me with this?
2007-02-25 14:20:14 · 6 answers · asked by Strawberry_One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are unhappy with him, it's probably not going to get much better. I was unhappy with my bf for a long time and tried everything to make it work - read books, talked him about what I needed and how I was feeling etc.
Nothing helped.
I broke up with him because no one should be in a relationship where only one partner is devoted. I'll be your friend if you need one after he leaves!!
2007-02-25 14:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am experiencing the same. Maybe you're just having minor problems so talk to him and try to work out your problems. If the same problems are coming out and you're not happy anymore, then the relationship's not worth staying in. If you let his shortcomings pass, it might even get worse in the future. Think that you deserve someone better than him.
2007-02-25 22:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by kristal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy, find someone you can be happy with. If you want to remain friends with this guy, it will take some time to get there, but it might be possible.
2007-02-25 22:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in a kind of similar situation and maybe you should tell him that he isnt making you as happy as he used to, or maybe you should try some new things..buy him small cute gifts or write him some cute things about the good times when you were together.
2007-02-25 22:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by lovely124 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound as if nothing is there anymore.
Someday you will find a Guy who will be absolutely in love with everything about you. Don't stick with a guy who treats you this badly.
2007-02-25 22:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it and if things still go the way they are i would break up
2007-02-25 22:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by *~*Aliizzle*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋