i'm a really nice person, a good friend, and trust WORTHY...but i have a problem when it comes to opening up and trusting others.....i'm really bad at forgiving in that area.......i'm always afraid that i'll get hurt and it's affecting my relationship and how much i open up to my boyfriend who's been in my life for 4 years...help please....anything will help
2007-02-25 13:50:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are reasonable risks and unreasonable risks to take. Assess whether your boyfriend has earned your trust. If so, start out small by sharing something about your feelings by telling him first that it is difficult for you tell him what you are going to and tell him how you would like him to respond. A suggestion would be to tell him you are going to share and you would like him to just listen, not solve it. Then tell him what you want to share and hopefully he will respond as you asked. Then you will begin to build trust in how he receives your heart.
2007-02-25 13:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well i have a friend who has been hurt so many times by friends and family members....and she just got in a relationship w/a guy who really makes her happy if ur boy friend seems like he wouldnt hurt u i think u should try to trust him....i told her to try she has been getting really close!! I hope u work it out
2007-02-25 22:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem..its hard but it takes time....
2007-02-25 21:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋