Hi. My screen name is Amer Nickel and I think I love a guy named Luke. We went out for a while, and I loved being his girlfriend (most of the time!). But the relationship was long distance and I felt like I didn't get to see him enough, and that neither one of us were content with the relationship anymore. So I made the mistake of breaking up with him, and now I miss him so much. I think that I broke up with someone that I love. What should I do, y'all?
P.S. Now I'm going out with someone that I don't really want to be with. So what should I do about that situation, too?
2007-02-25 13:46:12 · 15 answers · asked by Amer Nickel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't flip flop with someones feelings like that!!!! This is a persons heart not a dang game. He probably won't feel the same about you after you broke his heart! Maybe he was tired to as you mentioned. Just let it go..
I think you should not go out with the new guy if you don't want to be with him. That sounds kinda cheap and your not at all being honest with him. Again it's another persons feelings here! You should grow up and stop being so fickle and wishy washy. You will never be happy!!!
Unless something has changed with the long distance thing it will still be the same if he was to take you back and you'll get tired of it again. You can still care for him in your heart but leave him alone he deserves something solid & should not have to worry if you will break up agian & agian! You are just feeling guilty! You should not date anybody for a while so you can figure out just what it is you really want!!!
2007-02-25 13:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a bf for 3 years.. He claimed he enjoyed me and that hed by no skill enable me flow. Then abruptly he basically broke up with me.. abruptly!! and that i became devastated for a protracted time. So yeah a million boy did harm my heart. Now i'm going out with a guy who back claims he loves me. He hasnt accomplished something to disillusioned me or to make me mad and we've been going out for 5 months. As my maximum suitable chum says... "Many men will like u a lot and harm ur heart yet people who LOVE you will by no skill ever harm u." additionally, study to have confidence your bf. in case you cant have confidence him there is not any reason so you could be going out with him. A non honest relationship will in hassle-free terms lead to tears, Sista!
2016-09-29 22:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation, but it wasn't long distance... ok, so don't go crawling back to Luke. Get out of your relationship right now and have a few weeks to yourself. Then, call Luke, and be like,"I'm not going to lie, but I think I still like you." That's it, but don't get yourself into any more trouble like this!
2007-02-25 13:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After you've broken up, always ask yourself if the same reasons that caused the breakup are still valid.
I broke up with my bf and gf a year ago. I still love them very much and being apart from them is a great a agony, but I know the reasons I left are still as valid now as when I left.
2007-02-25 13:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but remember to be realistic - u said you broke up with the guy because it was too hard to have it long distance - think about this: if you get back together with him, nothing's going to change - it will still be just as hard having it be long distant - as for the other guy, if you really don't like him, then don't waste your time on him - just move on. Remember, it's natural for everyone to miss someone they broke up with - don't confuse those emotions with what's real and what's practical.
2007-02-25 13:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coming from someone who's made many many mistakes, don't ever give yourself the chance to say I could've, would've should've. Try & get him back but don't hurt the innocent guy that you're going out with now. Let him down easy but don't wait too long or your true love might be with someone else
2007-02-25 13:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop seeing MR. wrong immediately.
As far as the ex goes, you are just feeling sorry for yourself. YOu rarely saw him, and you created a fantasy about him. Well, life is real, and a no show relationship does not work.
Go to eharmony or emode and get a match .
2007-02-25 13:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After the experience I have just had the last couple days, it pretty much sounds just like the same thing my girlfriend just did, PLEASE if you love him, tell him, try to get him back, if you don't like the one your with, you should have no problem with it, if it's to be with the one you TRULY love. I just hope my girlfriend does the same, because I really love her.
2007-02-25 13:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by jimhm3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me many times,the key for everything is go talk to the person and tell them what happened and that you committed a mistake by breaking up
2007-02-25 13:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ever Heard of staying Home ?.......Love, just another word for Heat......Take a shower, Read a Book, Have some milk and cookies, and go to bed.
2007-02-25 13:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋