i met this man through a matching service we talked /text each other several times a day now after i met him this weekend its like we are strangers. i want to to talk he does not im really hurt about that what should i do?
2007-02-25 13:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by shamne37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" Then go find someone that is going to treat you like the superfox you are! His loss here!
2007-02-25 13:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by kaygrizzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very different to call/text someone and actually meet them because then you see all those aspects of him that you didn't see before. Lower your expectations and try to understand he's in many ways a stranger and press through to get to know him.
Talk to him openly about how you feel. He probably feels the same way about you, but you may get to know each other if you spend time together.
2007-02-25 13:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tac_aipes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from online matching services. You are/were strangers. No matter how lone to talked on the phone or online.
To be honest. I went the same route. Had some great online and phone Conversations. When we finally met.. it all ended.
She wasn’t attracted to me or I wasn’t attracted to her…Cut your losses and move on.
2007-02-25 13:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sucks because I was there so many times. when it comes to meeting someone online, its a game of russian roulette. you just dont know what your going to get or whats going to happend. men are picky when it comes to what they want, there just like women. and then if they dont like what they see then they complaint or abandoned the situation. its just best to move on and do what you were doing before you started talking to him..
2007-02-25 13:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Nicohle Jordi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of all them times Ya'll talk on the phone and text each other ya'll should know what to talk about you should know what he like and you sould know what you like whatever it is he like talk about talk about the world and how it so mess up.find something you both like and talk about that.
2007-02-25 13:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by quendra m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, you dont even know this guy, just try finding somone else if he doesnt come around in about a week. You didn't know him to long or anything so nothing is lost.
2007-02-25 13:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but seems like he didnt feel the same way u did after meeting so i'd say its his lose move on and find someone that deserves u
2007-02-25 13:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was dissapointed when he met you. did you forget to put the pork chop around your neck, lol, I'm just messin with ya but that's what that usually means. don't let one bad experience discourage you. homely girls need lovin too.
2007-02-25 13:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...and next time wait two months before giving up the nookie
2007-02-25 13:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait awhile he'll wanna talk again
2007-02-25 13:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋