Why do girls stay clear from guys that have honor, integrity, morals, responsibility, concern, sympathy, devotion, protective, and caring? Why is it that they always go for the "bad boys" that they know are likely to cheat on them in the end? why do they not go for the first type of guy?
2007-02-25 13:43:05 · 38 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love guys like the one you described. It's just that I come across a lot more jerks than I do the really sweet charming guys.
Besides, lots of girls want to be the one who "tamed the wild one" and got him to settle down, just for her.
2007-02-25 13:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all females go for the bad boys. But some who end up with bad boys really don't know he's that way when they first start dating. Some females like the bad boys because they like the adventure and they think its exciting. Some females may not have a good male role model in their lives so they don't know how a man is supposed to treat a woman. But there are females out there who want a nice guy. You just have to keep looking.
2007-02-25 13:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by MJ2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are stupid. We go looking to set ourselves up for disappointment and ruin so we an analyze, over dramatize, and complain.
We want attention, we seek to alleviate our own boredom. We want excitement, passion, and a guy that we can change. We're afraid of commitment, so we set ourselves up for failed relationships, and then ask anyone and everyone for advice on what went wrong. Most of us are just too insecure to be happy, too shallow to care about anything but the fantasized excitement of the ****** up bad boy, and too stupid to realize that we intentionally set ourselves up for failure.
It's an attention thing. It's an intrigue thing. It's ******* stupid, but eventually we all grow up and seek out good guys (usually when it's too late).
This is true for all of the girls you describe. Most just won't admit it. If you're the good guy, good luck. You'll find the right girl just before the millions finally grow up... Whoever said that girls matured faster than boys clearly was a female.
2007-02-25 13:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are girls out there that do go for your type. The girls who don't are just playing around and there life is just one big party. Keep looking don't give up. Try looking at church or get a friend to hook you up with a girl that would share your values and morals. The main thing is don't settle for less and don't give up. There is someone for all of us. Let God be your guide.
2007-02-25 13:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by memeemelissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bad boys are mostly the cute ones. -.- But later on girls realize that instead of going for the bad boys they should of gone for the honest loving kid of guy... especially when they end up with a screw up .lol Also when girls "love" someone they don't know what's right or wrong. They don't know good from bad.
2007-02-25 13:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like the type of guy you just explained. Yes, occasionally the bad boy can be fun, but not for a lasting relationship. I'm not so sure why a lot of girls go for the 'bad boys'. Maybe it's a self esteem issue. They may feel like they 'need' that type of guy to feel good about themselves, but I'm not so sure why.
2007-02-25 13:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "bad boys" have a quality that the "good guys" rarely have - spontaneity. In our younger years we admire the STUPID spontaneous behavior that bad boys portray. It looks like fun - care free. Yes, it causes pain, but we (most of us) eventually grow out of that phase - we lose respect for that care free, "I don't care about anything or anyone" attitude. Kind of the same thing as when you boys all go for the blond, tall, big breated, ditsy-type girls. None of us have grown up yet when we are in that stage.
2007-02-25 13:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by amiranae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like bad boys because they are exciting. I dated a bad boy and he opened me up to so many different things. Plus, bad boys need good girls. Maybe good guys need bad girls? I don't know. But in the end, nice guys finish last right?
2007-02-25 13:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes ladies don't want the first one because they are afraid that is what they need, and the second one is forbidden, and they already know the outcome, but still do it anyway. If you didn't already know, women love the drama, and the first one doesn't contain quite as much. You will find a nice lady to appreciate you for who you are sir, don't worry, don't change. Good luck!
2007-02-25 13:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by sugarbaby1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We want a challenge first, and want to try and change the bad boy before going over to the good side. Don't be depressed, though. The good guy always wins.
2007-02-25 13:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Hoofle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋