Im in high school and I still dont have a boyfriend what should I do?
2007-02-25 13:36:49 · 31 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL! Just sit back and wait. I promise you that in five years, you'll be asking how to get rid of the annoying pests.
P-R-O-M-I-S-E-!-!
2007-02-25 13:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chula 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw ma', well this is what I can say. Carry yourself in a way that a boy would find attractive.Walk upright, back straight, chest out, speak intelligently, don't give yourself away to quickly, make the guy chase after you, not you chasing after him because you may run him away.Don't put alot of make up on, but enhance your beauty by adding lip gloss (pick a color that goes along with your skin color or hair), if you have bigger areas that guys like to look at, (with me, it's my thighs and buttocks,flat stomache, and waistline) then flaunt that by wearing something that shows whatever you've got (but not too much of it).I'm single too, and I have had many chances to go with guys, but I haven't because I'm picky because they're not my type. Many guys ask me well why don't you have a man, and I honestly tell them why.So yeah, if you take some of those things that I've said into consideration, then you'd totally get a guy (it's a 50/50 % chance).
2007-02-25 13:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...I know exactly what you mean. I am in high school too and I still have not had a REAL boyfriend. It is hard, especially if you didn't grow up in the dating world persay. (like dating when you were alot younger) it makes it hard to be more comfortable with boys and know how to act around them. Basically, you just need to act comfortable (I need to take my own advice too) because otherwise you will come off as as intimidating, and though they may admire you from a distance they will be reluctant to approach you. So basically, just be yourself and relax. What's the worst that can happen? Remember...a broken heart will heal. But if you never take a chance, you will never experience the true exileration of love (again I need to take my own advice)
2007-02-25 13:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by tropical girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know u won't want to hear this, but Be happy about not having a boyfriend in H.S. You will have plenty of time later on. Having a bf in H.S. will lead to hearbreak because if you guys should break up, you will have to see him almost every day (Mon through Fri). You might be tortured if he should go out with a fellow classmate after he went out with you. Having a b/f in H.S. will take your mind off the most important thing: School work, and getting yourself into trade school or college. If you are a very sensitive person, who gets hurt easily, then be happy being single.
2007-02-25 13:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't pay attention to creeps like that nasty guy up there. Just be yourself, and pay attention to making yourself into the best possible person that you can be. Work out, get good grades, look pretty, but do it all for yourself. That way, if a guy approches you, you know it's the best possible guy for you. Smile alot, and don't be afraid to flirt! You are in high school, and there will be MANY guys that you will have to fight off with a stick in your lifetime, trust me. Don't rush things to fast, it's not worth it!
2007-02-25 13:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by supergirl789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
And dont be so concerned about getting a boyfriend. You should worry more about your education and stuff. A boyfriend in high school wont get you anywhere.
2007-02-25 13:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by The Zunester 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I ddon't know about other guys, but here's what does it for me. Be yourself. Don't change who or what you are to get anybody. Stand out. What's even better is if you don't seem even remotely available. Act like you don't care if you get a guy or not. Guys, just like girls, always want what they can't have. At least if you're goin for anything beyond a week.
2007-02-25 13:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First don't feel the need to fit in, it's stupid average high school immaturity, if you find someone that likes you for who you are though, and you fit together good, then go for it! Good luck, and be sure to remember that high schoolers are mostly stupid.
2007-02-25 13:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From experience, it is not all its cracked up to be, especially in hs. But be true to yourself, and don't count anyone out, and chances are you will find your boy where you least expect him. Be confident. Enjoy highschool and its other experiences, dating is just one of many. Hang in there, and have fun!
2007-02-25 13:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by sugarbaby1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I figured out the key to getting people to notice u is confidence. It always works for me. Just smile and u will get attention. :)
Plus flirt a little and be yourself.
2007-02-25 13:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by xoveexo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a new look ,with clothing, hair style,makeup
etc,then next maybe your are hanging out with the wrong group to meet gays ,
and maybe you have to be a little more aggressive yourself,
and give the gays that you think look nice a little quick special look........Good luck.....
2007-02-25 14:03:51 · answer #11 · answered by Melvin S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋