My boyfriend acts and looks extremely feminine. One night for fun I dressed him up in one of my outfits and damn he looked cute. Now on a regular basis I dress him as a girl and we go out. The problem is I think I’m starting to look at him like a girlfriend. And am ashamed to say I have even had thoughts of trying to set him up with a guy (I think he would go for it) is this a totally freaked out relationship? He seems to really love it and plays the girl part well when we are out (he even flirts with guys even if he doesn’t admit it!) Is my wanting to keep him as my so called girlfriend wrong?
2007-02-25 13:21:22 · 17 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting. He might be gay and too scared to really "come out of the closet." Dressing up in your clothing and flirting with guy is a "safer" way for him to express his true desires. I personally like guys who look feminine and even act a bit feminine. Did you ever have a discussion about him possibly being gay? I think your relationship is pretty cool, but if he is gay, get ready for a dented heart.
2007-02-25 13:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,its not wrong. He might have deep buried issues about wanting to be a girl and only gets to live it out when you are going out together while he is dressed like that. Most straight guys that do not have gender issues as well would not dress up in womens close. I do not think that you should set him up with a guy if you both are in a commited relationship. it will just lead to problems. Good luck!
2007-02-25 13:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok yes this a very weird and freaky relationship and yes maybe is doing something that he has always wanted to do or want to experiment with. I think that u should sit down and have a talk. What made you want to do it. How could this feel like a relationship to you. It sounds like you want to **** your little sister by day and dress her up to be your hoe by night yall are confused.
2007-02-25 13:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by SugNspice_1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is a cross dresser for real and you brought him out of the closet ask him if he wants you to try to set him up with a guy and see how it goes
he might be the best friend you have
2007-02-25 13:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not,
sounds as if you two are having fun
having fun should not be wrong
enjoy it while it lasts
but the time will come when he finds a boyfriend and if he prefers him before you ,you will have lost him.
so be prepared for that
2007-02-25 13:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your goat.
If he isn't complaining and neither are you and guys don't mind if he flirts with them..then who am I to judge..life is short to worry about what others think..so think for yourself..does it feel right? Is it fun fun fun? Well, then.....
2007-02-25 13:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your fault, u made him cross the border. But going back to ur question umm i think if u see him as a gf then that is all he is gonna be.
2007-02-25 13:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by wouldn't-u-like-to-know ;] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's into that sort of thing and it doesn't really bother you to hang out with him like that what is the real problem with it.
To each their own!!!
2007-02-25 13:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are enjoying yourself in your albeit unconventional relationship, then all should be well.
2007-02-25 13:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Aubrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds transgendered.
2007-02-25 13:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋